It hurts so much sometimes. You invest so much and all you get is hurt.
What is the point of even loving or being loved?
I feel so discouraged about this in general.....
2007-04-15 18:05:08 · 24 answers · asked by Adyghe Ha'Yapheh-Phiyah 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I think that there is a key element to love that you might be applying. And that is 'Expectations'. If you have your expectations set upon someone or something, you might not exactly be loving. You have involved 'need' to complicated the matter.
At least, that's been my expereince.
2007-04-15 18:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you feel discouraged and hurt. I know it doesn't help but you must know that you this pain will pass.
Loving and being loved is the greatest treasure within this world, but the most important thing about love is, the more you give, the more you have. And the more you receive, the more there is for you to share.
I hope that when love does find you, it is pure and more than you can hope for.
Bright Blessings )O(
2007-04-15 18:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Stephen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Purple, I'm sorry that someone hurt you.
May I give a piece of advice? Walk slowly and get involved with someone slowly. Don't fall head over heels or give yourself away so quickly. Allow a person to show you that they can be trusted with your feelings and your heart.
Love is unlike anything else. It makes life beautiful. Don't give up on it. The risk we take is getting hurt. But you can be wiser about investing your feelings.....think about what I've said, and don't shut yourself off. There are so many people that need someone to see, to hear, to listen, to care. Be a person that looks to do these things, and expects nothing in return. You'll have more love and fulfillment in your life than you could possibly imagine.
2007-04-15 18:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Esther 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, I'm not alone. It's unrealistic to think that love won't hurt, if it didn't people would take it for granted or not bother to make it work/last. . . sure, you can get hurt, but you can always recover, usually you grow stronger, as they say. . .don't be discouraged, after finding your love, you might appreciate or look fondly back on (or won't even think about) whatever hardships you may have witnessed and/or experienced. . .
Love feels good, give love and you'll receive some back . . .
2007-04-15 18:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you want is love. the factor of it extremely is feeling needed and favored, the place you are able to act like your self and to detect somebody to be with for something of your life who values you for who you extremely are. have you ever viewed old couples? wonderful how they stay mutually see you later. there's a factor to each little thing. the factor of affection is to have actual happiness. in case you have not chanced on your actual happiness yet and you're asking what's the factor? then you definately might desire to maintain finding. because of the fact there's a factor and a reason.
2016-12-20 15:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the point of even loving or being loved ? . . . Hope. . .
Desire of Love springs Hope...AUTHENTIC Love discovered brings the soul and heart to awaken to embraced warmth.
Many experience having their body hugged...yet to have the soul and heart hugged...that is a joy. Is it " needed " ? No. yet it is natural to be in the embrace of.
The heart is too precious not to be patient for. I'm sorry you feel discouraged. Maybe leave it be for awhile and simply share with loving your own self...those of others in your environment...and let the natural way of life occur as it does.
Peace to you.
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2007-04-15 18:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is food for our souls.
The problem might be the mistake of thinking that romantic love is the only kind to feed your souls.
Actually, healing, beautiful romantic love can only come to a soul who is pretty much whole and strong.
A better thing to do is to back off of the romances and start giving unselfish friendship love to people around you. When you give, then healing will come back to you.
2007-04-15 18:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Free To Be Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not need love, but life without it is not really life. Take a break for a while and realize that love is a woderfull part of life but not the only part of life. Work on another aspect of your life and get something out of it for your hard work. Don't try to force love into working for you all at once. You have to work at it but you can't force it.
2007-04-15 18:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Michael M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is never love without pain. As to the point of love, it is the same as the point to life. Love is for loving and life is for living.
2007-04-15 18:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by hrld_sleeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We think we need love...we're programmed to need love...but it's a lot more hype than reality. In order to truly love someone, you have to love yourself and I don't think many of us can profess to loving ourselves.
But don't get discouraged. Love's gonna get you-one way or the other. Just don't take it seriously. :)
2007-04-15 18:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by miri-miri-off-the-wall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋