I like this girl more than anything in this world but she doesn't seem too interested in me. I wrote her a few emails but she didn't answer all of them. Do you think I should write her another email? Do you think it's OK if I write her an email and ask her out? Do you think she will get annoyed or just won't care? Is it worth doing?
Thanks
2007-04-15 14:40:29 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. anonymous 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I can't communicate with her in a different way other than email. And please try to give me serious answers. Thanks
2007-04-15 14:44:45 · update #1
I know her for quite a while but we hardly spoke to each other.
2007-04-15 14:45:44 · update #2
Go ahead and ask her out on a date. If she says "No". Move on and find someone else.
2007-04-15 15:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by beckini 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, at some point you are going to have to talk to her. I mean, what will you do if you go on a date with her, sit across the table and txt her the whole time?
Take it slow and settle down. She has no idea that you like her so much and if you pile on the attention she'll freak out. You've built a lot of fantasy up about what she is like and gettng yourself so worked up you can't even talk to her.
Send her emails that don't have to do with your feelings for her. Send jokes (clean ones!) that you get or links to pages on the internet that you think she (not you) will find interesting.
That's level one. Level two is the brief personal contact. Take a deep breath, it's easy. When you see her at school, smile and wave. DO NOT freak out if she doesn't see you and assume that she hates you - she just didn't see you. If that goes well, say "hi." That's it - just "hi."
That's level two. Level three is the longer personal contact. Ask her, "Did you get the link I sent you about pandas? What did you think?" LISTEN to her and take it from there.
If you share a class ask her what she thought about a recent big assignment.
Take the focus off yourself and you won't be so nervous. realize she's a person just like you and has a personality. Ask her a few questions about herself and she will see that you are interested in who she is and what she cares about.
As far as the etiquette of asking someone out on a date, you should do it in person. But you don't have to do it right away.
She may still decide not to date you, but you might get a good friendship going and that's nothing to sneeze at, yo.
2007-04-16 06:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Parrot Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you e-mailed her twice and she didn't respond assume (a) that's she not interested or (b) she hasn't been on the computer in a while.
It's uncool to ask a girl out by e-mail. If you like this girl as much as you say you do, you need to work up the nerve to talk to her. Get to know her and feel comfortable and then ask her out. I would never go out with a guy that e-mails me for a date.
2007-04-15 14:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie Oh! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women like a challenge, give her space and see what happens. In the meantime, find other things to keep you occupied and if you cross another woman who suits you, take advantage of the opportunity to get to know her.
2007-04-15 14:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Charming Taurus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you actually know her? If you don't, I wouldn't ask her out over the net. If you do know her, ask her in person. It is possible you've sent too many e-mails. Lay off for a while and talk to her in person.
2007-04-15 14:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is bewildered by you right now. Give it a break and stop by her house and ask her out then in person.
2007-04-15 14:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by pinkpearl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋