mental breakdown?

Question

ii had A HUGE ARGUMENT with my parents over the weekend all the anger and fustration was built up from years of thing i cant or dont wanna talk about on yahoo.alot of it has to do with alcohol,hangover part time parenting and how messed up iam in the head i never cracked before the way i did on the weekend i threw things at the wall and in a moment of rage i thought of violence and other bad things....i just broke down and feel to the floor crying lmost like i collapsed i was soo upset i just felt like dying like giving up on life its self i felt like total garbage and for a second i couldnt do anything i couldnt function for a few minutes but i pulled myself together and went to a family members house then i had another argument and things got worse over the weekend i pierced my ear[[got 2 more holes]] and spent time with my best friend i forgot wat had happened but now that im in my house i remember it all again and i have this feeling like things wont get better i feel like life is

i feel like life is too much to handle and im so depressed and i feel liek no-one can help me ........im soo ****** up in the head and its only getting worse im only 15 so i have no where else to go should i move in with my brother am i having a nervous breakdown wats the difference between nervous and mental breakdown i really need advice because i might run away life is soo much to handle

all the issus arent mine but my parents and it effects me because i have to go trhough it everyday it effects me

Answer 1

you already had the breakdown hun ,now is the bravest part for you to do=go and get some help with your emotional problems so at least you can learn how to live with them =good luck=====I have been there myself and nothing worked until I got the right help

Answer 2

well i do know a lot about this sort of stuff becuz it happened to me all of my life up until i was 17. I still deal with it, but a lot has changed becuz i dont live with my parents. My whole ordeal dealt with drugs and bad parenting and the only advice i can really give you is dont give up. It sucks *** right now i know, but you gotta realize that it's totally their problem and its not yours even though you feel involved. I lived with my grampa for a little while and that seemed to help alot. Getting yourself out of the situation helps so much, but get yourself out of it in a good way. You dont wanna run away and then be reported as a runaway and then go to juvy. And if you run away more than once, they will just up and put you in a foster home. I have been seeing a counselor for the past year, and to be able to get out that aggression by talking to someone who is willing to listen to you is very helpful. Just dont think that its the end for you, because i can promis you that it will get better. Just give it some time.

Answer 3

I am sorry that you are having serious problems. I would like you to reflect on what you did while you were angry. Who did it help? We have to learn to control our anger and I know from experience. When I have allowed myself to get that mad, I am the one who has made a fool of myself. Since I don't know anything about your parents, and that isn't important, but I want to remind you that they are the authority here and will be as long as you live in their home. You mentioned alcohol and I sure hope this isn't your personal issue, but if it is, realize that it will end in nothing good. Know too, that no parents are perfect as they have problems too. Please try to focus on how you can make things better for yourself and your family. It takes everyone one trying to have a good home. If there is anything I can do to help, you may contact me. I am a Mom too and it seems like yesterday that I had real issues with authority and anger. We do out grow it and become good people. Good luck.

Answer 4

Sounds like you need a serious break. If you have an older brother you can stay with for a bit while you and your parents try to work things out that would probably be beneficial for all involved. Your brother had to grow up with them also, so he could be a great source of support.

Answer 5

You need to talk to someone who can help you deal with your day to day life.

Are you in school? Go to one teacher or councelor at school and talk to them about how you are feeling. Ask them to respect your privacy. If you do not believe there is any teacher at school who will listen to you, try your church, talk to your minister, or youth pastor.
If there is a YMCA or youth center near where you live, go there, and talk to one of the adults who works there.

It sounds like you need to spend some time out of the house. Can you get a part time job, after school, and on the weekends? You would not be around your parents so much, and you would earn some money too.
Can you talk to your friends about this? Do any of your friends have a parent who you trust? Try talking to one of your friends parents about how you feel, maybe they can help steer you in the right direction.

I had a lot of problems when I was young, my art teacher at school saw me come to school covered with bruises, (there was no child protective services then), and she took me to live in her house at 15 years old. I lived there for a year, and then took my GED and went down and took the SAT and went to college at 16, I got grants and loans and worked nights to pay rent and bills.
It was my only recourse.
People were there to help me, there are people out here in the world who care about you and will help you too.
Not everyone is like your parents.

Don't give up.
Time heals all wounds.

Answer 6

WHOA, U SOUND LIKE ME! I'M KNOWN TO GET VERY UPSET OVER ANYTHING. TRYIN' NOT TO THINK ABOUT THE SITUATION IS TOUGH! I WOULD TRY TO AVOID PROBLEMS, BUT IN SOME WAY IT STILL COMES AROUND AND IT'S WORSER THAN BEFORE. THE WORST THAT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU IS BEING SENT TO A MENTAL FACILITY. TRUST ME, I'M TRYIN' TO AVOID GOING THERE BECAUSE MY FEARS. I READ SOMEWHERE THAT MENTAL FACILITIES ARE THE WORST PLACES TO BE IN, IT'S A TORTURE CHAMBER IN THERE! I KNOW FOR SURE THEY'LL HAVE TO RESTRAIN YOU, AND POSSIBLY STRAP YOU DOWN AND PAINFULLY TESTED! I'M REAL AFRAID IF THAT HAPPENS, ESPECIALLY IF THEY PLAN TO INJECT YOU WITH MEGA-SIZED HYPODERMIC NEEDLES TO CALM YOU DOWN. FYI, I FEAR NEEDLES! THINK ABOUT IT, ME AND YOU IN THAT PLACE FREAKING OUT AND TRYING TO ESCAPE THE TORTURE! SCARY ISN'T IT?

Answer 7

Just stop saying No to what is.