Me and my boyfriend are having many promblems!! I am 27 and I want to get married but all he does is make lame excuses why not to get married. Then his friend pick him up. He gets home drunk all the time. Then one time he came home with a bra in his hand is he cheating on me or not and if he is how can i put it to him!! CONFUSED
2007-04-15 11:11:45 · 6 answers · asked by coolawesomebrainpower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wake up and smell the coffee luvvie!
A committed and in love man wants to get married,
wants to be at home with you, doesnt go out getting drunk all the time and certainly does not come home with a BRA in his hand. How do you think he got the bra? In a vending machine?
He is not worth it, move on!!
Ultimatum time honey, tell him his behavior is not acceptable to you, then move out. Maybe he will see the error of his ways and come begging you to marry you and promisning to change. Maybe not, but in any case you gotta stop letting this guy treat you like a doormat. Do you really want to marry and bring up children with a drunk? Think about it....You deserve better. Now be strong and get out!!! There are plenty of unattatched lovely men out there that would treat you properly. Lose this loser.
2007-04-15 11:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, hon... doesn't sound like he's even close to thinking about marriage. You need to consider being single for a while, and I'm sure you will eventually meet a man who wants the same as you. Don't invest so much in the next relationship. I'm sure you're capable of supporting yourself, so don't move in with any more boyfriends unless you're married. Guys get too comfy when they can come home to it any time they want. Then they don't want to let the relationship progress. Dump this one! Good luck!
2007-04-15 18:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I tell you something this is a warning sign of thing to come getting married will not change him it will make this little problem worst my best advice and I know from my personal life is to live him now I am 43 and been married to my husband for 16 years after two week of dating I dated my old boyfriend for 4 years he don't want to get married
2007-04-15 18:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Jerry Springer!! JK. If he really is cheating on you, dump him. There is more men out there and would probably want to go out with a girl like you. There are many respectable men that probably won't drink, cheat on you, or want to get married. Just whatever you do, don't get violent!
2007-04-15 18:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by gameboi702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this love, but I think your boyfriend has other plans than getting married at the moment. Good Luck though.
2007-04-15 18:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Wise One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really confused or just not wanting to own up to reality? The reality is "he just isn't that into you". Check it out on Oprah.com and maybe it will help you come to the right conclusion and help you move on.
http://www.oprah.com/tows/pastshows/200409/tows_past_20040922.jhtml
2007-04-15 18:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by lisagoesshopping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋