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Question

i like a girl, she knows i like her and we have made plans to hang out 5 times this past week, and she always has to cancel because something comes up, or because we only had time to hang out for like an hour or so. she usually calls me once a day, and she sometimes says cute things to me like sweet dreams. but im not sure that she is into me because she has a lot of other things she puts before me, and our growing relationship. i usually talk to her a couple times a week when we shoot hoops at school. how should i act in front of her to make her like me more, and put me higher on her list of priorities. should i try to make more plans with her when we talk, or should i just make her laugh and tell her jokes, and make her make the next move. she is also a really nice person so what would be the signs of her just being nice to me, rather than being interested in being my gf. she always says she is sorry and seems sincere when she has to cancel, but how many times before i give up??????

Answer 1

Print out the question you asked here and give it to her.


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Answer 2

Well i wood make her laugh I woodnt act like a geek try to be good at everything and flirt


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Answer 3

I think she's just being nice to you because some people are just naturally nice people. To make her like you more, you could make her laugh and when you do actually get round to hang out together make sure she really enjoys the time she spends with you. If she keeps giving you the hard shoulder then I'm afraid it's time to move on.

Answer 4

5 cancels in one week? Take a hint and look elsewhere. I'd say she's not interested and trying to be polite about it.

/rant People are like that--dancing around the true answer not to hurt your feelings, but they're wasting your time instead /rant off

Answer 5

hmm ok well this could be the answer; once i had a gf who had parents who where really strict and stuff and they wanted to protect her or whatever so they always hesitated and said maybe another time and held it off because seriously they didnt want their daughter to go out with anybody so the girl kept having to make up excuses about going places when i called her. she was nice and talked to me at school but she always had to do sthg when i asked her to the mall, movies, etc. so maybe thats it her parents wont allow her to go out with anybody im sure they dont have a problem with you, its just they're hestitant with they're "little girl" you kno what i mean. so, the solution? i'd to a group date or something where the parents can be around (i know, grrrr) but live with it its inevitable they are going to want to meet you.

Answer 6

Hang out with her when you get the chance. Actually listen to what she says, and bring things into conversation again later that show that you actually are listening to what she says.
Don't seem desperate...that is not ever appealling.
I am always interested in someone who remembers my name, uses it in conversation, and shows that they LISTENED to what I said, and then THOUGHT ABOUT IT afterwards!! If they come back and reflect on what we were talking about the other day...that is impressive!!
Good luck!!

Answer 7

ok,well.don't give up so soon.give it a chance.look,she isn't spending much time with you.that's it.yeah,you should make more plans and try to keep them longer than an hour.the more time,the better chance.ask her that is she free and make sure there are no distributions.Good Luck!!you can get her you seem like a nice guy!

Answer 8

Have U asked her if she is already involved in a relationship? It sounds as if she is. Don't ask her out so much. Let her long for you. If she's really feeling you she'll ask you out. Girls don't like persistent guys. But honestly, it sounds as if she wants 2 be nothing more than friends.

Answer 9

Hmm..you should leave her alone for a bit. If she's interested in you, she'll be the one to call you and try to make plans with you. Give her time :)

Answer 10

what is your question again? you can't expect anyone to be you as thier first priority, get over it.I guess at home you are always the priority eh? anyways, she is just nice to you so be nice to her, if she show interest to you like i.e she likes to hang out with you, study, call you, she wants to go out with you like a date, it means she likes you. goodluck!

Answer 11

Don't give up if you really like her you should be persistent.! Keep making her laugh that is what always attracts me to a guy.