What to do/how is it or why is it/About Woman?

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how/why is it seem like the same thing time after time if a man does not hang around a woman they automaticly think the reason he does not wont to be with me is because I'm to fat / too ugly Or some thing close to that, I understand That They wont to look pretty for the man in there lifes, But G Come on why can't they think that is has to do with something other then that, however that's that the case here, there's two other reasons then that, & why can't she see that's she doing what she doing wrong, I under stand that she can't read my mind But that has nothing to do with it, it seems like she can't see what she's doing here, & 1 is that she ask me to borrow $30.00 for exsample & she would pay me back $100.00 & then tells me a date that she will give that money back to me,but when the date comes she's no where to be found, 2, she's never hardly around to find & then tell's me I never hardly come around, need to find way to say what the probem is with out making her fell bad,even

or maybe I just feel like I need to leave her, it's seems like in a way she wont friends but just does not know how to be a friends with any one,it's seems like it's hopeless,but yet I'm confused about it all, & oh that's not all, but for the rest I would not know how to even start about it, like the words don't even come close to what I feel inside about it. is why I can't talk about the rest. & to top it all off She Know's How much I 'm trying to rake up enough money to have some of my lyrics put on a demo tape, but it all most seems like she off in her own little world to some extint like a very whacked feeling about it.......

or maybe I just feel like I need to leave her, it's seems like in a way she wont friends but just does not know how to be a friend with any one,it's seems like it's hopeless,but yet I'm confused about it all, & oh that's not all, but for the rest I would not know how to even start about it, like the words don't even come close to what I feel inside about it. is why I can't talk about the rest. & to top it all off She Know's How much I 'm trying to rake up enough money to have some of my lyrics put on a demo tape, but it all most seems like she off in her own little world to some extint like a very whacked feeling about it.......Whitch kinda gets me confused..

it's like I wont to be with her but yet at the same time I don't, & it's a whacked feeling to think that she almost does not beleave in my song lyrics writing or some thing or kinda like she thinks like my last wife does If I hit it big & get rich I would up & leave her because she would not to good enough for me, the only things is I was married to the last one but not to this one because I have all those probems with her before I even thought about marrage with this one. why is that that they think I would feel that she's not good enough for me if I make it big/rich

Answer 1

I can tell your ranting, but you sum'd up your own problem by throwing it on her. She isn't a good person buddy and why you keep dealing with her I can never tell. But your making the same mistake only in a different way. Both of you are not realize how much the friendship is part of a relationship... they go hand and hand. And you can't blame her for being her, but your tearing yourself apart because you've got your heart on oneside, that obvious loves this girl and then you've got that brain on the otherside, that obvious knows she isn't worth loving.... so realize that unless you have a relationship that satisfys both, don't be surprise if it isn't satisfying.... love is never enough, don't let society or disney paint a pretty picture on a world made of some many more colors.... I mean really she is undependable, you don't relate enough to know her mind, and your on yahoo! answers instead of talking to her about, yep bad relationship man.... love well do this to you... just keep in mind buddy the heart can love many things.... take a tree for example, a man could worship a tree, eat, sleep, and f all around his belove'd tree, but that doesn't stop it from one day falling on his head... thats what the brains for... if you don't use it, well your abusing it, enjoy!