When you have met someone you like after several dates or on a one night stand, have you ever been so turned off after seeing them naked you had to make your excuses and leave?
2007-04-15 10:17:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know this is one of my biggest fears! People tell me that im beautiful all the time and sometimes I even feel beautiful. I dont believe in having intercourse before marriage because lets face it sometimes we let our emotions take control and do things that we might regret later on in our lives. There are many stages in our lives. Our junior school crush, our highschool sweetheart and then our college love. You can love many people I personally do not believe in having a soulmate. Its all about time and place for me. Yet, Id like to be with someone who loves me enough to wait as well but what if thats a mistake? what if this person sees me naked and is revolted? what if i have made the biggest mistake of my life? Its very sad to hear that some men here have done this to women. You dont understand how rejection feels and how cruel that is. I honestly believe that there might be men out there who will love you inspite of everything, when you love someone just being with them should be enough why pay attention to trivial matters? doesnt life change constantly? I might be beautiful today but what about 10 years down the road when I have a passel of kids? As long as you dont get lazy and always work to keep the relationship strong your love can thrive. For when you stop caring and even trying that is when marriages and relationships start to fall apart. Anyhow, point is sometimes i feel so ugly that I cant even look at myself and thats a blow to my self esteem. people think Im crazy for feeling this way and that i befuddle them. My insecurity is my body. I dont have a gorgeous body because Im scarred with so many stretch marks. I feel nasty and I hate it! But I just wish that the men out there can be more understanding and respective of our feelings.
2007-04-15 10:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Lol, good question!!! It's never happened to me either way, but i guess if you have feelings for someone, it shouldn't matter what they look like as it's part of them. Having said that though, I once went out with a guy who had a willie like a walnut whip, and that was a turn off. Very small indeed, and the fact that he thought it was huge was even worse!
2007-04-15 11:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah. I'm not perfect so I don't expect the people I sleep with to be either.
But when I used to be hot and the uglies started coming my way I always made some excuse to get the heck out of there.
2007-04-15 10:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dreams 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very shallow person. Let me guess she or he wasn't drop dead gorgeous beneath all those clothes. Was there a birth mark on the body. What would be so bad that you might not have noticed with clothes on?
2007-04-15 10:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by wildcat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be seeing them naked, although you might see them in a swim suit and be turned off.
2007-04-15 10:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Joe C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I do not like the fake and get excited buy the real. A woman who is who she is and is not uncomfortable with it really turns me on.
2007-04-15 10:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No body is perfect and that is horrifying to think that at such a vulnerable time as being naked for the first time together someone would do that.
2007-04-15 10:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
I remember waking up in bed with my arm round a girl.
She was so ugly I gnawed my arm off in case I woke her.
2007-04-15 10:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by itsonlyjef 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no I make sure they look sexy and I never never turn off the lights have seen those things that dupe guys in to bed
2007-04-15 10:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by coolio 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Holy Crap, Just thinking of that situation is just freaking me out. Unless they had an infected...i dont know....infected genitals, then I would scram but other than that I would just fake it the whole time.
2007-04-15 10:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by Stella 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋