K, I want to lose weight to get the attraction of this dude that I have liked for almost 4 years. I asked him out last year, and he never answered, and now this ***** who is my best friends friend told him, and he said to my friend that he doesnt care that I like him. Back to the weight. I cant get him, or my weight off my mind. He said that he wanted a g/f that was 96 pounds, (Not to my face, it was a activity in church.) and I am SO not that. I am 147 pounds, 5'2, and I know that that weight is so not healthy, but I do want to get slimer. I really want him to like me. I would say no to him if he ever started liking me if I were to change apperance, and I will, but I really want to lose weight. How do I do it, and posibly by June? FYI I am about to b 14, and I really think I might . . . Love him. I just dont know what to do. What do I do about the weight? I mean what are some ways to lose it and get real results? Please b serious. Thanku for answering.
2007-04-15 10:13:37 · 7 answers · asked by Star 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Slow down. Unfortunately most men like slim women. It's the nature of the beast. There are two problems here. One your weight is your enemy. Take a pic of you in a bathing suit and put it on the fridge, Choose low calorie foods. Prepare a head of times. No you can't eat what your friends eat. All diets work, chosse one that fits your life stile.
Now the guy. Be careful what you pray for you might get it.
I once lost 130 lbs and was so tight , I couldn't be pinched. The girls fell out of the trees. I lost the weight on weight watchers. I was hit on by so many girls it was crazy.
I say this so you will understand the beginning of love (just as it was for you) is the delight of the eye.
become pleasing , don't binge. I'm sure you will win. You may not believe me now but if you win the weight battle, you win it all. He won't matter as much either.
2007-04-15 10:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being absolutely ridiculous! The kid clearly said he was not interested in you so move on to something else. Your going to be 14 so just move on. I'm not sure how old the boy is but he sounds very immature and not worth your time anyways. Good luck to loosing the weight which you should be doing because you care about yourself not the boy. Loose the weight get healthy and find a different boy. You cannot love someone you haven't even had a relationship with. Speaking as a mature individual I have to say grow up and don't let one person get the best of you.
2007-04-15 10:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by sg300c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your best to get over him. He obviously doesn't love you. Loves hurts, and I know getting over guys is really hard but we all have to do it. I asked a question today that explains why I'm saying this. Sometimes guys can be witches, (with a capital B) we just have to move on. Your weight is fine, just try working out and eating better and if that doesn't help then learn to love your weight. You do not weigh that much and some people are naturally heavier. Plus, muscle weighs more than fat. Hope this helps, I know it hurts but this guy isn't the one for you.
2007-04-15 10:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Even Then 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You suppose it is time to pass??. What do you imply... I desire it isn't allow pass of lifestyles... you realize the suffering that could reason each person. You have not even gotten over the dying of your sister. Let your daughter are living together with your moms and dads even as you're employed on getting your self bigger. When melancholy hits us the whole thing turns out nugatory.... so your notion of what to do approximately your daughter is a well one. See, you'll suppose instantly, you simply want the gap and time to paintings on your self. Good success with the longer term, I have no idea you, however I consider you will have the force inside you to get your self at the street to restoration.
2016-09-05 13:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by gaub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lose a pound for him. if u are gunna lose it do it for urself. Get over him first. Go on a trip or something to get him out of ur mind. Once ur totally over him then work on the weight thing.
2007-04-15 10:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Cena_Kix_Ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't magically like you if you manage to lose 50 pounds, which is just crazy and unhealthy anyway. You can't make him like you. Get over it, hon. Work on getting a stronger body, be proud of your body but don't alter it for some shallow guy.
2007-04-15 10:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 14 year old should see her doctor for a good diet. You're just a kid. You don't love him, you're too young to even know true love. Get yourself together. You are so immature.
2007-04-15 10:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋