I just want to tell you about my relationship, and i want HONEST peoples, opinions.. I am 18, and im with a man, 20 years older than me.. i'm not happy with the age difference, but, we met when doing our drag racing and it just happened, were so happy together and nothing could change it. He already has children, whom i have not met yet, but in due time i will. We have almost been together a year now. And i love him to pieces..opinions?... i live at home, and he lives with his 3 kids, and currently his ex who is moving out..and i know this, so i'm not worried. How can i show him i love him, tomorrow when i see him. x
2007-04-15 10:11:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats sweet. The thing you have to remember is that he is much older than yourself, so he does have more world experience. In other words he may have seen and done so much already. Though this could possibly be true, its up to you to make things feel new and exciting for the two of you. As long as whatever you do for him or with him comes from the heart, you should be able to let him know that he does indeed mean a lot to you and that you love and care for him. Some people feel that going over the top is the only way to show appreciation. On the contrary, something simple, could very well do the same job...something to keep in mind. The extravagant is nice at times but so are the simpler approaches. Whatever you choose to do should parallel the level of your relationship, meaning its depth. Also such a gesture should be heart felt, reflecting what you're feeling inside. Don't forget that passion and compassion are key. Good Luck!!
2007-04-15 10:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see my young lady am the same age like u and iwana tell u that this man the main thing in his life he cared for is his three kids.So may be he treats u like a father and not a lover. think well u r going to be a mother of three kids if u r looking for marriage.believe me this love will ruin Ur life and i care about u cause we r about the same age. u won't find in him the man u like u will bUry Ur youth with a father of three kids.so if he put in a comparison between u and his children he will choose his kids,his babies even if he is in love with u if his kids refuse u,believe u will be completely ignored . think with Ur brain not ur heart cause heart always is the cause of our misery.
2007-04-15 10:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, love doesn't have an age, sex, religion, anything.
secondly, just keep at what you're doing to show him that you love him.. and maybe even tell him that you're a little uncomfortable about the age difference and the kids.. maybe he'll understand, or maybe he'll have second thoughts..
your call on that one. =p
2007-04-15 10:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by soccrrulz21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that someone your age even shows up ought to be enough for him.
2007-04-15 10:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's old enough to be your dad.. from the outside naive person it looks a bit wrong.. but it shouldn't matter about ages.
to show him you love him, just be yourself sounds cliché but yeh. :)
2007-04-15 10:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm honestly im speechless but ask him if hes willing for you to move in, so this way you can meet his kids but still see him everyday...Good Luck!
2007-04-15 10:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur alone kiss him. the guy will like it garanteed.
ull proboly regret not doing it the next day.
2007-04-15 10:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by M C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw that's kinda a cute story. say to him how you truley feel about him. back him a cake too!!!!!!
2007-04-15 10:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by Eliza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋