I started dating my current boyfriend on Thursday. On Friday he came up behind me 3 times that morning and hugged me. Then Friday afternoon he kissed me on the cheek, then a few minutes later he kissed my hand, then a few more minutes later he kissed my forehead. I talked to him for almost and hour Thursday, Friday, and Saturday night. my bff says we skipped some stuff like dates n holding hands,etc & that maybe we should slow down. do u agree or not? why?
2007-04-15 09:56:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 15 thank u.
2007-04-15 10:07:54 · update #1
i am comfortable with it because he doesn't want sex. it's not like he is grabby my butt or something like that, just kissing my forehead, my cheek, my head, and hugging me
2007-04-15 10:09:39 · update #2
As long as you both feel comfortable with it, but if he is saying slow down, den mayb he ait as comfortble, give eachother sum space tho
2007-04-15 10:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly dont think theres anything wrong, your going at the right speed by the sounds of it, you know if you going to fast if within a week or so he wants to sleep with you, but i think your doing ok atm, but keep up your relationship how its going now, keep a steady pace like this and you'll do fine and hopefully you will be togther a long time to come :)
2007-04-15 17:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're comfortable with it... then I don't see a problem.
Dating is all about attraction and comfort level. If those two factors are validated, then you should be okay. And as for the actions he's taken on you, don't worry about them. They are harmless and you'll be fine.
Just be careful if it gets a bit more "personal." You don't want to do anything you will regret. But for now, I think it's safe to say you're okay. =]
Good Luck and Take Care!
2007-04-15 17:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by Philosophical One 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That just sounds like a good relationship to me....as long as yall arent plannin on having sex before tomorrow yall should be straight...and theres nothing called skipping stuff....si he used to this gf/bf thing??
2007-04-15 16:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by DA R3AL3ST C~TOWN SHAWTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Nothing you two have done would be considered moving fast. In fact, I would say the pace is pretty steady. Don't put to much emphasis on what your friend thinks. Do what is best for you.
2007-04-15 17:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree u only had three days thursday friday saturday he kissed u and hugged u that is 2 fast
2007-04-15 17:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree.
I think that if you move too fast certain little things won't be as special as the really could be. But, thats just my opinion. Just make sure that your are ready for what ever may happen.
2007-04-15 17:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the one kissing. He should slow down.
2007-04-15 17:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how you two feel. If you think you need to slow it down that's ok, but don't depend on someone else's advice.
2007-04-15 16:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by farflemagoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm depends...
like some people have sex or like sexual things first... and then cuddle and hold hands
he might want to like always touch you cuz he cant get enough of you.
or maybe he just wants sex.
guess u willl have to wait and see.
2007-04-15 16:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by rrollercoaster16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋