Ok, theres this girl i like, and i havnt talked to her very much at all. Would it be awkward to just ask her to out to a movie right out of the blue, or should i get to know her more?
2007-04-15 06:34:53 · 11 answers · asked by mailmanthemailman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her out of the blue. I never have the balls to do it, but it will probably work out very well.
2007-04-15 06:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Scottie_T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it!
Just be confident and ask her out. It's just a date, its not like you're asking her to be your baby's mama.
If she's into you she'll say yes. Which is awesome! If she's not she'll say no. Which is fine, because you two can still become friends, and you can quit wasting your time pining about her and find someone else worth pining over.
p.s The movies is a bad first date idea- try to think of something more interactive so she'll see your personality shine.
2007-04-15 13:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by ecogirl_ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my bf asked me out straight out of the blue and it's great because if wed gotten to know each other a lot in a different way we may have ended up being friends instead so id say just ask her out, maybe she has a thing for you too.
2007-04-15 13:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by lizi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's a new strategy for you then yes it may feel a tad awkward to you....but go for it. What do you have to lose? You said you havn't talked to her very much at alll, but at least you've talked to her. You can ask her straight up if she'd like to go to a show with you or a dance........if she says NO* i dont even know you.......ask if she'd like to get to know you better as you would like to get to know her better~
You have nothing to lose. The worst that can happen is she'll say No Thanks* ......but don't think negatively.......you may be surprised when you hear her say Yes* goodluck
2007-04-15 13:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't invite her to the movies right off since you don't really no much about her take her some were or creat an occasion/sittuation where you can get to know her better and if she seems confortable talking to you then you invite her to see a movie with you.
2007-04-15 13:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by lilmickeyred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINATLY get to no her more. You wanna make sure this really is the girl for u. Don't be Mr. Mysterious, talk to her, do some activity or hobby that she does.
2007-04-15 13:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey why not? The only thing that beats a failure is a try! Go for it!
2007-04-15 13:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Challenge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her.. introduce yourself and tell her you'd like to take her out one nite. Be confident, don't be wishy washy
2007-04-15 13:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by MacktheKnife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her a bit, but not enough so that your best friends. if that happens and you break up, you whole friendship would be ruined. trust me..... it happened to my friends.
2007-04-15 13:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by krissi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her more.
2007-04-15 13:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋