I been in love with is guy for almost a year now and i am going crazy, I did told him that I liked him by phone almost a year ago, he said he is not looking for any relationship. I found out that he was heart breaking by his ex.
I know he like me, I can see it through his eyes, the way he stares at me without knowing what he is doing, the way he is nervous when I am around, he make unfunny joke but i laugh at it because i know he is trying to impress me.
He will do anything to cross the room to say hello to me.
Guys! I been reject by him and still crazy about him, I didn't choose to love him, live is putting me through this.
His sign is cancer
Please help me out before i make a fool out myself.
I am 23/ he 25, I mean He is white and I am African, I am not sure if that can be a reason why nothing is happening.
Please help
2007-04-15 06:05:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to just go to him and put it on the line, if its been a year .and you and him have not told one another how you feel . if you think it is because of the different race.then you need to ask him straight up . that way you will know if it will ever be.good luck wish you the best .
2007-04-15 06:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by destiny r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm first assuming that you are both in the same area, and not that you are in Africa and he's in US/Canada/Europe.
Back off from him for a bit. See how he reacts... Move on a bit to see what he does. If he doesn't reach out, then go through the heart ache now, rather than later.
If he goes after you, then you know that investing more time and energy has at least a chance at being worth it.
Good luck.
2007-04-15 06:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You age isn't a reason he doesn't want to date you, not at this point in your life. A two age gap may be significant in high school, but not now.
If the last time you said something to him about being in a relationship was a year ago, maybe you could bring it up again. Don't come on too strong though.
2007-04-15 06:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey frenchi i've just read your letter and as you are hooked to that guy (not in love yet,trust me)let me tell you as a guy (a 25 )that the man is just not into you .you can ask 100 guy around who have been in love or at least attracted to someone .Most of them will tell you that you cannot ignore someone you love .if you do you are not just in love with that girl .you might not believe me frenchi but the best advice is to go after someone who actually knows that you are around .come on you are only 23.......i;m advising you to buy a book that is called "he is just not that into you "you will be liberated from this pain trust me.
2007-04-15 06:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by ryuken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a bit intimidated by you
I'm sure you have a smashing good looking body?
I think that what they told you in a previous answers is good to try, to go to him next time and kiss him, but friendly,on his cheeks, if he wants more perhaps you'll see
and invite him to dinner to your house,god knows
perhaps he likes you but have you seen a guy to say no before?it means maybe he does not like you as much as you thought, at least not that way as lover
try kiss him friendly and include him more in your life
2007-04-15 06:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by ParaskeveTuriya 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a victim of the one thing we all suffer from, we all want what we can't have. Be stronger than him and resist him. If after you do that he comes running, maybe you won't want him anymore. And then you will be better on every angle.
2007-04-15 06:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by erin c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means, may you learn... Interesting, does not mean something bad, it just means that you will have the interest in some way...and that you will think and learn due to that.
2016-05-20 22:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him that much then do things together with him. go to the movies or something. tell him your not expecting anything and just hang out as "friends"....if he really likes you he will come around and you guys will spend more time together and things will just happen naturally. just don't pressure him. guys hate pressure.
2007-04-15 06:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is other fish in the sea. Choose a pisces(fish) instead of cancer(crab)
2007-04-15 06:11:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might be married. If he has rejected you, please do yourself a favor and leave him alone. You'll feel better and better as each day passes. You deserve better. Good luck to you.
2007-04-15 06:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋