2007-04-15 05:48:54 · 27 answers · asked by sammie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm married, unhappily, have a married boyfriend and an unmarried boyfriend. I'm chatting to a bloke on the internet who wants to meet up and have joined several dating sites. Am I unusual?
2007-04-15 05:50:25 · update #1
I don't want people to judge me, I just want to know if anyone else is in the same situation. You see I've started forgetting their names and making a fool of myself. I want advice.
2007-04-15 06:03:44 · update #2
I am in virtually exactly the same boat. I am separated from my wife, have a married girlfriend, an divorced woman who thinks she's my girlfriend (although she's getting too needy and I'm trying to give her the hint that she's dumped), a woman I met on Yahoo Answers with whom I am in an advanced stage of flirting, and I am on several internet dating sites. I also go out clubbing and have to fight off all the 30-something single mums with a large stick.
As for forgetting names - I call them all babe, darling or hun. It helps avoid those embarrassing situations when you use the wrong name.
2007-04-15 06:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take time out and sort yourself out, you are in love with being in love.
Just think your husband will eventually find out and he will probably leave you, so the life you are living now would be gone if that is what you want carry on, the only people you are hurting is yourself look at what some of the people above think of you, I'd die if I thought people were saying that about me.
Not being nasty but your husband is better off without you so perhaps your only saving grace would be to separate before someone tells him.
2007-04-15 13:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by st.abbs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unusual hun, just unhappy!!!
Is there anyway you can sit down and talk to your husband to try and make things work?
I think the unhappiness will be there despite how many other men you have in your life and that you need to get to the root of the problem so you can deal with this hun x
2007-04-15 12:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kerrybobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was a little like this in my 20s, though not married. it was complicated and stressful. i became single by choice for a long time when i hit 30 and it made me realise how much better an uncomplicated love life is! all of my stress related problems disappeared and i felt great. now i have just one man and its uncomplicated and i'm very happy!
good luck!
2007-04-15 13:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you're lucky to have so many guys. However, I think in the long term you should choose to keep one guy that you like best or else all the guys might end up dumping you if they find out what you have been up too.
2007-04-15 14:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by April2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if we're honest a great majority of us have had complications in our love lives at some stage, as for being judgemental, a lot can be, but in my view we need to walk a mile in that persons' shoes before we judge, which is why i don't tend to judge people
2007-04-15 14:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Others may find you exciting. However, in my book I find it unusual. Since you've created your present life, apparently you like the drama and confusion. So one's opinion should be irrelevant.
2007-04-15 12:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not unusual, but I would say your train is headed down a track that is likely to end up in a bad crash if you don't watch yourself.
2007-04-15 12:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by JeffyB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are just like the vast majority of people that think marriage is just a way to say "I love you more than a regular GF/BF".
2007-04-15 12:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly daring, if nothing else. What are you missing? Why did you get married in the first place?
2007-04-15 12:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋