I met a guy online and greatly love him. We plan to meet and see
where we go from there. We sometimes tell each other questions like " did
you fall for someone else?" or "how about all those boys/girls you know?We are
very interested in each other. The problem is , that sometimes he
disappears for days offline. I send him messages and he doesn't answer
and then he goes back online and then we are very in love again. I
don't want to cheat on him(if it would be even cheating). My conscience is
always telling me to not talk to other people. The other day, I
went on his highfive page and discovered he added another girl. I don't
know if there is anything between them or they ar just friends (i to
have friends that are boys on highfive). , would it be a sin to check
out this girl's profile just to see if he speaks to her and other girls
like the way he speaks to me? I'm not at all a stalker . I just want to
know who that person really is so I don't up being hurt and
broken hearted. There are other people who wanted to be with me but i
keep avoiding them so I wouldn't be cheating. Would it be cheating if i
check out those other people before meeting my online guy. Also can i
see what he and those girls write on each others profiles so i would be
able to know who i'm talking to? The profiles and the comments they
write are public so they are there for the whole world to see or would
that be spying or a sin? I just want to protect myself from pain. Thank
2007-04-15 05:46:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Wow. To answer your question...no, it wouldn't be a sin. But it also isn't a sin for him to be chatting with other girls online.
Please forgive my skepticism, but how can you know you love someone when you haven't even met him...much less be afraid of CHEATING on someone you've never met? Talking to people online is a dangerous thing -- we can be whomever we want to be so long as we're concealed behind a computer screen.
You want to know who this guy really is? Meet him. Preferably in a very public place, in a group if at all possible. Talk to him over the phone, if you can't arrange a meeting. But building up this kind of level of intimacy based solely on online chatting??? It's troublesome.
2007-04-15 05:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sancho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see no sin in this but look even though some relationships do work out via the internet it is still unknown territory,no one has done a study on the positive or negative effects of this as far as I am aware,it is so very easy to hide things using this medium and also to decieve people,the old fashioned method of face to face meeting is still the best I believe, but not through the web.
2007-04-15 05:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sentinel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
after we backslide we are to ask the LORD to forgive us and then circulate on and proceed praising Him. the toughest section is forgiving your self. Is there any unconfessed sin you're retaining directly to? has the LORD instructed you to no longer have interaction in multiple the failings you have been doing? some thing which you will desire to have left on the foot of the circulate yet particularly picked returned up and carry with you.? youthful sister provide all of it to Christ and you will comprehend real exhilaration and wont be so under pressure and guilt ridden. Get into His be conscious, pray and hit upon a powerful Christian mentor who's keen to wish with you and for you. Be blessed!
2016-12-16 06:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by goslin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow! obviously you are very young, naive, and/or both!
Meet people in person , in situations where you will be with people who share your values!
What you are doing is dangerous, foolhardy and there are serious warnings regarding meeting and committing to people you think you know by just typing to them!
Run from this bad situation!!
2007-04-15 06:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by June smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but let me inform you that on-line predators operate in exactly the way this guy is acting. He gathers a harem of on-line girls and tells them what they want to hear in order to meet them and have sex with them. Be careful!
2007-04-15 05:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your "In Love" with someone you've never even met?
2007-04-15 05:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
godly advice, i have none... i dunno if you religion considers it a sin to check up on who your "boyfriend" is talking to...
but some worldly advice, he's not that serious about you.. break it off now before you get hurt even more...
2007-04-15 05:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋