Maybe its low self asseem but the guys always call me ugly and stuff. Anyway to fix me?

Question

Please no smart *** comments ok.

ill give you a link to a picture of me if needed. Mainly i just feel really crappy about myself.

ill post a link in a minute. My friends tell me im pretty but idk if its just the guys being rude or what. They've always had a problem with me.

lol my friend took this of me on a cellphone kind up close

http://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q38/jazzy_vega/stuff/closeupofme.jpg

tell me the truth but dont be rude on purpose just to piss mee off =/

Answer 1

people say these things to you to make you feel worse, thus making them feeling better themselves.
dont listen to them, i dont know if what you look like but personally i dont think uglyness or beauty is a thing that you can see.
Take time to like yourself, talking to your frineds, meeting new people and doing things you really like will help you be busier and happier, thus making you more confident and once you have confidence you wont hear anyone call you names

Answer 2

I went through the same thing myself my earlier years of school but during my eleventh grade year of high school I just made sure I was the best dressed person in the entire school it seemed like when I put a lot of time and effort into my appearance more people noticed my beauty more but most of all I began to gain more confidence in myself because the simple fact was alot of the prettier girls didn't take the effort to look as good as I did on a daily basis, but trust me even if your not the most beautiful girl in your school act like you believe you are and everyone else will believe it also , theres nothing worse than thinking your ugly if you don't see your beauty no one else will,


If you do post a link to your pic I would be happy to give you some tips on makeup or clothing or anything else you need advice on , if you dont want to post a public link just email me

Answer 3

God, those guys who are calling you ugly are immature and really dumb. If they can't look beyond physical appearances, then they must be immature bunch of *****s who can't think of anything else other than their ****s. Let me make it clear to you, I have had the most beautiful girlfriend, ugly girlfriend, ok girlfriend, etc. Never was it the looks that made them attractive, but their personalities. When I was in highschool I knew plenty of girls which guys called ugly and become the most beautiful girls in college. Don't you ever think your unattractive, all women are beautiful, and believe me, someone thinks you are too (and you truthfully look fine, you are not ugly in anyway). DO NOT fixate yourself on the things that a few guys say. They are probably a bunch of virgins who have never been with a girl. The only person who needs fixing are those guys, and If I knew them I would be doing the fixing.

Answer 4

first off u shouldn't feel like u need 2 fix urself 4 any guy. I used to feel like there was something wrong with me when a guy I liked called me ugly, but then I realized that they were the ones missing out, not me. Just do what i do, look in the mirror and compliment urself. it's not being concieded but having self confidence. believe me in due time the right guy will come around.

Answer 5

I wouldnt really worry about it. no matter what you look like people will always say your ugly.

Look at what this asshole said to me.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoryxU4KNltmVtT8WajCfizty6IX?qid=20070415001244AAaoeR5&show=7#profile-info-fSqGQhSuaa


there are six billion people in the world and not all of them will like you. But some of them will.
:) cheers.
you should stirve for the place where you dont need assurances from others but when you can look in the mirror and see what you want.
self assurance is best. confidence without arrogance. Keep your chin up and realize they are just words, and words from people that wont matter in your future life.

Answer 6

I think I have to retract some of my earlier statements. Your facial bone structure is quite good, from viewing the photograph. One thing that brightens up most people's day is a young lady who smiles a lot. Why have such a sad face?
I don't think you have much to worry about. Good luck to you.
Remember, confidence!

Answer 7

Raquel Welch said in High School she had the same problem. Things will change for you when you are a full grown woman. Hang in there till then.

Answer 8

if you base your life on what people think of you, you won't get very far there in . what do you think and feel is the most important and you need to know that your are beautiful know matter what you look like beautiful comes from within not without

Answer 9

You don't need fixing. THEY need fixing. Don't worry-once they are out of school the ladies will laugh at their closed minds. You are exactly how you are supposed to be.

Answer 10

never feel down abt urself and specially about ur looks. I would love to see ur pic. just be confident in urself and keep smiling.
and hey, u r very beautiful.