i met this girl and i already knew her for about 4 months already. at first she seems to like like me.. we contacted each other everyday.. she called me by telling i miss u.. and sumtimes sms me and telling that i love u.. but recently i dont know y our flame and feelings are depleting slowly but my my feelings for her is getting stronger... i think that she already bored with me... last time our messages is full with smilies and now i think that only my msgs to her contain smileys.. and she answered like she's already bored.... does anybody have any idea what to talk to embrace back the flame of our relationship so that she wont find so boring because the most important thing in a relationship is conversation... and right now i dont know what topic is the best to talk to her so that she wont be bored....
2007-04-15 00:56:40 · 4 answers · asked by ken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Matbe you should do something else besides talk, like go on a date
2007-04-15 01:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Endlessly texting her tells her that you're not very busy. If you're not very busy then you're not very happening and also it comes across as clingy/needy, two things you absolutely want to avoid when attracting a woman.
Stop being endlessly available. Text her something like "Got a surprise for you, it should be fun. Meet me at (place) at (time) on (any day but a weekend - you want to convey you're too busy on weekends). Are you in?"
Then plan something fun to do together. Make sure that you never refer to it as a date, pick a place where you're comfortable (best if people know you there and you get to do something you're really good at in front of her) and remember to have a plan to entertain her. Don't be boring or predictable, and have a plan to change venues if you can so she sees you in different settings, that you're a happening guy.
Hope that helps - good luck!
2007-04-15 08:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Her About It : Billy Joel. If you gotta strong gult feeling, then tell her how you feel before she's gone. All you need is to believe and have faith. Well do y'all have anything in common? Find something that y'all both like and maybe go to events that y'all both wanna go to. Y'all can always talk about what y'all like about each other.
2007-04-15 08:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet up with her...
2007-04-15 08:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋