Well.. this man is 27 and i am 21. We both are working and also, i think im mature enough as look, im 21. But the question is.. is he too old for me? Should we continue? By the way, we are only friend at this moment and i think we could be possible.. bcoz we have lots in common and we chat alot comfortably we both find each other fine. Just those slow and steady type! haha..
Thanks for any comment.
2007-04-14 23:37:12 · 7 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Six years gap is not an issue, the important aspect is after the next six years you would be able to tide the ups and downs of a relationship.LIFE really has alot store, only time can tell what will happen next!
2007-04-14 23:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about him, then age shouldn't be an issue in the relationship. 6 years is not a very big difference and it could have been alot worse. When you are still a teenager, 6 years feels like a lifetime of difference between two people, but as you grow older, the gaps between maturity levels lessens. At 21 and 27 you should both be on the same maturity level and should be able to have a relationship without age becoming a problem. But maybe you should talk to him about this. If you want to start a relationship with him, start with honesty and ask if he thinks you are too young for him and ask him why he would think that. That way you get to see what he would think about the situation. People have different preferences and one of those is sometimes age.
2007-04-15 06:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age shouldn't be factor. If you both have feelings for one another and it feels right then go for it. People mature at different ages. Women tend to mature faster then men do. 21 and 27 is not a big difference in age. I recently dated someone quite a bit younger than me. It is the best relationship I've had in years. I would never trade that experience for anything.
2007-04-15 07:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfsong88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with 27 and 21. Continue.
2007-04-15 06:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should continue and not worry about the age thing too much. In fact, in some horoscopes, the six year difference looks really good for relationships. Go for it and be happy. You'll never know til you try. Good luck
2007-04-15 06:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by howzit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 6 years is not to much of a difference.
My grandparents were about 9 years difference. They were married nearly 60 years.
My daughter and her husband are 9 years difference and are doing find with three children...
Go for it.
2007-04-15 06:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't too old for you!
Go for it huni....
Good Luck
2007-04-15 07:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋