Iv been visiting some of my family in Cornwall every year since i was like 5yr old.. Well theres a lad there witch every year i seem to get with.Weather hes taken for or not..We keep in touch all year round with txts and fonecalls.
Well hes had this girfriend now for over 2years, witch last year it didnt stop him from sleeping with me and spendin most of his time with me..
I know this wasnt fare on his girlfriend but i came to the conclustion if she didnt no, it wouldnt bother her.. At the end of the day it was only a bit of fun!!
Well am visitng again in August and hes already plannin us meeting up and doin woteva... lol
If hes been with his longtime gf and really cares for her why does he always end up getting with me when ever i go to visit...
How can someone do that,if i was happy with someone i wouldnt dream of cheating on them..
2007-04-14 23:05:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do that yourself knowing he is with someone, respect yourself a bit more.
2007-04-14 23:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by mamgu....... 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whether he is not happy in the relationship and/or does it because he is a disloyal, dishonest person, or something else, part of the answer has to be that he does it because you go along with it. Maybe you aren't the only one he is cheating on his girlfriend with, but I think you should rethink your attitude to this. How would you feel if it was you being cheated on and didn't know about it? Would you really not be bothered and think they were just having fun. I hope you work out the right thing to do and do it (and that the same thing does not happen to you).
2007-04-14 23:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Max 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people like the excitement of cheating but given a choice they will more than likely choose their long time partner.
If he has been cheating with you just for the sex, how many more girls has he cheated with since you last visited?
Lots of young girls go to Cornwall on holiday and I would be surprised to hear that you are is only holiday romance.
I would recommend that you have a checkup or go and give blood if they don't accept it they will tell you why.
2007-04-14 23:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by st.abbs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be so blunt but here I go:
1) He's just using you for sex and enjoyment, if he loved you then he would have dumped his girlfriend for you by now. He's clearly just a sex-crazed idiot who thinks with his penis, not his brain.
2) Why on earth do you keep letting him use you like this? How would you feel if you were his girlfriend? Stop letting him cheat with you - in fact, I would tell his girlfriend too , who knows how many people he's been sleeping with. He could give her an STI one of these days.
3) It's time for you to be mature and respect yourself and stop letting him walk all over you!
2007-04-14 23:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how you feel,how she feels and how he feels about it........if the two of u are gettin along together nicely even while cheating on his girlfriend(sleepin with you wouldn't be taken very nicely by her) spare a thought for her..how would she feel if she gets to know abt the two of u huh?........the best thing to do is to masquerade just a friend of that lad and nothin more than that......get closer to his girlfriend ask how she fells abt him(is she serious with the relationship? etc) and then take the next step,if she IS serious then u can do nothing but tell your boy how she feels and tell him to tell her about you and think yourself........ did u lose your virginity for someone worth your life partner or just for some harmless little fun..............maybe YOU may not be serious abt it it but spare a little thought for the other girl........its better to tell the truth now as marriage is not yet involved but once it is a bond of such magnitude will be under threat...........
2007-04-14 23:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you could try to analyze his behavior until you're blue in the face... but what's the point? Analyze you're own behavior, because that at least you have some control over.
You're logic of what she doesn't know can't hurt her is childish and kind of cruel. You're hurting yourself and this other girl (who has never done a thing to hurt you) and all this for what? Some guy who has no respect for himself or for a female he's been with for two years or for you.
Why would someone do that? Why are you doing it? I would strongly suggest you rethink getting together with this guy.
2007-04-14 23:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by tenayaledeux00 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I reckon he is with the girlfriend for convenience hence why he doesn't mind cheating on her. I wouldn't say their two years means anything.
As for you he stays in touch all year just for some fun in summer, alot of effort so he must like you.
2007-04-14 23:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tinker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking yourself this question?
Why would you sleep with someone who you know has a girlfriend?
This says more about your morals, & your apparent lack of self esteem than it does about the guy your sleeping with.
He doesn't care about you, he is just using you for sex. The sad fact is you are letting him, & you should be asking yourself why?
Find yourself a boyfriend, someone who truly loves you, & respects you, for who you are.
2007-04-15 00:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
<<
How can someone do that,if i was happy with someone i wouldnt dream of cheating on them..
>>
Seems like you would. And it would be a nice dream to you everytime you get to cheat.
Please for god's sake. Grow up.
2007-04-14 23:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your possibly escapism. some ppl enjoy having extra fun on the side some ppl get a real kick out of it. And how do you know he has a gf you seen them together
2007-04-14 23:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you should be asking yourself is why you have so little self-respect that you will sleep with such a man like this.
2007-04-17 22:51:35 · answer #11 · answered by Jugular 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋