Hi! My girlfriend is going away for 10 day's to mexico with her friend her mom and step dad. I have been with her for 6months and 5 day's exactly. We love each other dearly, plan on marrying and having kids. My mom and dad love her 2 pieces. And her mom and step dad warm to me to. We love each other very much. I am her first boyfriend, and her first love... she lost her virginity to me, and we are both first timers! I am 17 years old can you help? and i will be going on holiday with her in spetember to benidorme! HOWEVER! I was wondering would she cheat on me? I am scared...
2007-04-14 22:50:22 · 27 answers · asked by Panda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL, no man she would not cheat on you, you must really mean a lot to her because she lost her virginity to you, girls do not just lose it to anyone, and if she has kept her virginity so long you think shes gonna be that type of girl that is evil and cheats on his boyfriend? no, lemme tell u this, im 18 right now and i have a girlfriend that i love with all my heart shes like a treasure for me, i also lost my virginity to her and she lost hers to me like two years ago, i used to be hella jeallous at the beginning because i loved her a lot and i was scared to get hurt, but now i realize that she really does love me and that she wants to marry me and have kids with me, (but we are gonna do that once we are 30 haha) live your life first man, explore the world with your girlfriend, go to europe etc... theres lots of time left to raise babies...well im getting off topic here, if all this that you are telling me (virginity, marriage etc.) is true, than i can promise you and guarantee you that she will not cheat on you during her trip to mexico, ill cross my heart on that, just trust her man, believe me it would make your life much easier and your relationship more enjoyable, ever since i started trusting my girlfriend we started loving each other more, because trust is a big thing in a relationship, jeallousy sometimes kills "perfect" relationships, hope you take my advice man :D and by the way my gf is mexican too haha PS Dont listen to these retards telling you that life sucks and that she will cheat in you, they are just jeallous that they dont have a beautiful relationship like you and i do with our girlfriends, just ignore them man, dont let them ruin your relationship or even your day, good luck man :D
2007-04-14 23:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by WhiSp3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it. First love relationships are are usually very honest and delicately sensitive. Your souls touched each other and the world is opening up to you both. Cheating would be a little too "advanced" a concept this early in your young relationship, and too "violent" an attack on the delicate love you have together. I think she would be faithful.
I know you probably feel like she has your heart in her hand but why don't you think she would take care of it? Right now, that definate distrust in her is more of a danger to your relationship than a chance that she may cheat.
2007-04-14 23:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by mecasa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude,
thats life she will cheat on you.
thats what happens, she already
had used you and now she's dating
someone else. relationships never last
especially for first timers like you too.
best thing for you to do is to move on
rather than hang around like an idiot
while she is screwing someone else.
its best you **** someone else and
live your life without her. even if she
comes back for seconds, just tell her
its so over, and now you are dating
Jennifer. She will wanna know who is
that and you'll say, that doesn't matter
now. And then you say goodbye and walk
away in the opposite direction.
if she insists that she was
supposed to dump you then you
say, too late, i dumped you first.
bye. That is what u should do
so you don't look like an idiot.
remember sex is a numbers game.
you are in it to score points of
experience. Not to be all
mushy mushy. good luck,
and remember never let a
girl make you feel sprung.
2007-04-14 22:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not going to cheat, are you? I trust her, more than I trust you. Do you trust you. Spend the time on a new hobby or reading books that will make you a better boyfriend. She will be just as lonely as you if not more. Give her assurance that you trust her, and that she can trust you. Let her know that she could be gone a day, a year, or even longer and that nothing is going to change. If anything the time apart will make you stronger. Tell her to enjoy her vacation, and that next time you hope to go with her.
2007-04-14 22:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by ARM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that. First of all because she's probably just as old as you and she's with her parents on vecation, they wouldn't let her out of sight. Secondly, if you are her first love, first boyfriend and the first one, to whom she lost her virginity, more reasons she wouldn't cheat on you, if a girl is really inlove with someone she would do anything to keep their relationship working.
However you Guys are still young, to think about marrying, many things would still come to your way and the trip to Mexico is safe, but worry if she's with friends who don't like you, they might brainwash her ;)
2007-04-14 23:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your girlfirend is going away on a vacation or a cheatcation? (forgive the pun ;)
either way you have to trust her if you truly love her... you are the only one who really knows her.. is she a flirt? is she the kind of person that would cheat? what kind of person is she?
still thinking that she would cheat on you would only mess up your mind... just keep in touch with her and always remind her that you love her.
and dude she isnt the only girl in the world you know.... you are both too young to take these things too seriously...
2007-04-14 23:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by eDy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip young man! People on here if they think they can get your goat then they will.
First of all your worried about the wrong thing. I'm sure cheating is not on your young g/f mind. So chill and stop worrying !
Wish her a fun filled time and guit stressing.
2007-04-14 22:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on , if u say that u love her than u should trust her . And if she loves u truly than she will never cheat on u , o know girls are very dedicated once they say I love u than they mean it . And if u both r seriour about each other than talk to her . Well i m not so experienced but believe me it helps and trust her .
2007-04-14 23:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kena P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible but don't over react as it will cloud your thinking...
Take things slowly rather than rushing, if you are planning to get married I suggest that you be with her more and also get other things settled in your life like a job and a small house...
2007-04-14 22:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so insecure? Sound to me like you feel guilty for having forced her to begin with, i.e. she didn't know how to say no to you. Your statement reveals to me you may very well plan yo play around on her when she leaves. Can she trust you., is a better question!!
2007-04-14 23:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by Slewpy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋