Did I become ugly all of a sudden or something?

Question

Okay I'm obviously not being serious with that but I'm confused here.

I like this girl. She used to sit next to me in class and we talked a little bit. She used to look at me a lot though. I could usually tell out of the corner of my eye when she was staring at me. I had the hunch she found me attractive but I'm not sure if she liked me.

Anyway we changed seats and now I don't talk to her at all. We see each other but no verbal communication. And she doesn't look at me anymore. If she does, she looks away. I didn't even do anything wrong, I'm so confused.

I'm confused because it looks like she doesn't even acknowledge me anymore. Before she would get excited to talk to me, don't ask me why. Maybe because i didn't talk to her enough before. But on random days I would feel talkative and when I would say something she would start talking to me about random stuff. Now there's none of that.

If that answers your question....

Answer 1

Well, here's an idea: Maybe when you were in the original seating position, she was always looking past you to see something else. Now that you are in different seats, she may not need to look past you. Regardless of this, if you have an urge to get it back up with her again, then start communicating with her. I suggest just saying a friendly "Hi!" or "How's it going?" to her every now and then, whenever you pass by her. If you didn't do anything wrong, then she can't possibly have just started disliking you, so if you're able to start up verbal communication again, things are sure to work out. Verbal communication is very important, and if you let her know that you want to be noticed, she will definitely notice you. However, after all of this, if you find out you have done something wrong, apologize to her and ask her how you can fix it. Good luck with that! I hope things go in your favor!

Answer 2

Stop stuffing around and be direct. You see her , you want her? Then sit next to her.

Dont wait for her to say hello to you, YOU say hello to her. Open the door for her, anything to make your presense known

We are not back in pre-primary here.

You have a voice, use it! Dnt give her a chance to look at away, smile and wave.

Tell her her hair looks nice, anything.

This will break the ice. Id she likes you and after this you still dnt know what to do, remember to be VERBAL, SIMPLE and DIRECT. Tell her what ur thinking. Its the only way, and never presume.

It also may be nothing, just something you ahve procrastinated over in your mind, which is what made it seem so "big"

You a kid, ur in school, its a small crush. No biggy if this doensnt work out

Answer 3

Hey Dude. Don't mean to be a smart a** or any thing but what you did was by stopping talking to her you made her think that you might be a little weird. So what you do is start talking to her again. If you don't you will make her think that for what ever reason you just got stuck up all at once and think you are better than her. That will hurt her feelings. Always remember no matter what side of the room your on your friends are your friends. Always make time to Speak to them every day.

Answer 4

You didn't turn ugly all of a sudden silly! If she thought you were attractive she still does she just doesn't know how to start a conversation now that you guys dont sit next to each other. I think you should try talking to her maybe something like "how you been" or "hey i havent talked to you in a while, so whats new?" i suggest you talk to her during lunch maybe catch her after class so it wont be so akward...good luck!

ps:dont listen to all of the rude ppl on here!

Answer 5

Seeing as how you're still in school, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Crushes come and go like the wind. If when she looks away, she smiles, then she still likes you. Since you didn't say what grade you are in, writing notes was always the easiest way to find out how she feels. Have a friend give it to her or something. At least you'll know and if she doesn't like you, then you can move on to the next hottie.

Answer 6

The best answer to any male person is just do not give a damn about any female. They find it very attractive if they know that you do not care whether they like you or not. You just have to stop caring about chicks, just treat them as though they are nothing, and they will flock to you, but the punch line is that you must really not care about them. If you pretend not to care they will suss it out and think that you are a cheap skate. You must decide if you are athletic or intellectual, and spend all your interest in either athletic or intellectual pursuits, and just don't care about the chicks. It does not matter whether you are good looking or not, or have spots or not, or whatever, because they see that you have mastered yourself, so you have self control and inner power.

Answer 7

It could be because she was waiting for you to make the first move but you never made it so she couldn't stand it anymore. Now its your turn to try to get her attention back. Bring excuses to sit next to her and to talk to her..even if you have to ask her the time or something....anything to bring you in contact with her again

Answer 8

you definately did not become ugly suddenly
No .ugly ussuasally occurs at birth and ripens with age
maybe she has a big zit shes hiding or perhaps age spots?seborea?psoriasis?embarrassing facial hair?a cold sore or some other condition heck
maybe she is growing a third eye
but in the end son
if you wanna have the chicks learn how to play guitar

Answer 9

OMG YES.. u turned ugly overnight man.. bad luck sh*t happens.
hahah jk.. just go sit next to her in class next time and start talking to her.. ask her interesting questions and see how she replies.. if its always a single worded reply like yes, no, or maybe then u'll know shes not interested. just go try

Answer 10

You obviously misinterpreted her looks. She's not interested. How can you be confused, there never was anything between you.