I am currently in Iraq. Before i left, i was talking to this girl on a not so regular basis. Mostly just on the phone from time to time. And i liked her a lot and have respect for her. We got together before i left and we were making out. Normally things would have gone farther. But i didn't want to get too invlovled with her right before i left. So i left it at that and left. Now she doesn't talk to me over here. Do you think she feels that i don't want her? I'm about to head home and i'm afraid that she thinks that i don't like her. What do you think?
2007-04-14 22:29:33 · 9 answers · asked by Scottie_T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow bro, you should have gave her something to look forward to coming back too. Maybe a little appetizer.
wait a minute, i know you. matter of fact you are right across from me, and yes, yes you are a moron.
2007-04-14 22:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Scotty_J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Dude. You did the right thing. You didn't give her false hope. But now you need to step up if you are interested in the girl and let her know. You are a good guy. Not a moron. You could have used this girl if you wanted to but you didn't. That is a good thing. It shows respect for yourself and her. Good job!!
2007-04-15 05:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have left she may be scared that the relationship may not work....as long distance relationships are generally hard to keep going....she wants to see you time to time so now would be a hard time to do that for her....
Take care in Iraq...
2007-04-15 05:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you should of had sex with her,I can say with certainty
that she wanted to have sex with you,by you not sleeping with her she really thought you didn't care for her I no I would have.
When you go home tell her the reason why things did not go any farther then they did.We like the truth even if it hurts.
2007-04-15 06:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey she doesn't want to start having feelings for someone who MIGHT not come back... i mean i'm not saying you wont... but you no i'm in the army too... and i no the chances... but... mabey shes just wanting to wait for you to come back... i mean no girl wants to have her heart broke with a solider that doesn't come back even the song says that... "waitin on a traveling solider" i think thats the name its a country song if you don't no it... but yea i mean, if you get back and shes with another guy... for 1 thats just "f"ed up and for 2... shes stupid.. i would love to have a military guy... well if i didn't already have a bf... i hope this advice helped you at least a little...
2007-04-15 05:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by cowgurl2200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might feel left behind and she may feel used My advice is you should call her and explain what happened may be she'd forgive you and things would work out.
by the way yeah you are a moron
2007-04-15 05:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Dark Crystel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably your wife feels the same way!
And what about your Pixie? She's still waiting for you at the produce stand!
You're getting sloppy, Hottie Scotty!
2007-04-15 13:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by PixieTwilight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say call her up to let her know if you're interested, & if she still is, things will be okay
ps: you are NOT a moron!
2007-04-15 05:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sandries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! OMG the world needs more guys like you!
2007-04-15 05:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋