it took him two weeks to even look up and make eye contact with me. Even though we were the only 2 in the gym. Then in week three he was on his way out the door and stopped look back and said see ya later. It has been 4 weeks now and he finally says hi, but still keeps contact and eye contact very low key. I am very serious during my workout and dont like disruptions and he acts the same. So what is the best approach to get him to talk to me more! I can tell by the glances we exchange there is something there....but what do I do now? He answers his phone quite a bit while working out...if he is hooked up I still just want to be able to converse and mayb make a new friend.
2007-04-14 22:22:40 · 8 answers · asked by *star chick* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When he's leaving
leave too and ask him if he wants to
join you to eat
2007-04-14 22:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by cheeseinvader1420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him questions about his workout. Or for help with technique on how to do an exercise correctly. Or to spot you with the free weights. Once you get your foot in the door, so to speak, ask about him, get him talking about himself...his own workout goals, etc. But don't be too aggressive, or corner him, follow his lead, and before long he'll think it was all his idea..this new friendship. Good luck.
2007-04-15 05:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it, he could b your future husband,lol
ask him the time , or ask for help with the equipment, see if he starts to talk a bit
hes probably waiting for you to start, he might think your taken ,
my husband goes to the gym and yesterday he comes home with a party invitation from a girl at the gym, she obviously doesnt know hes married with 4 kids, so u gotta b careful, i told him to tell her, but hes too shy just incase shes inviting alot of gym members, he doesnt want to embarras himself, good luck
2007-04-15 05:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach him right b4 you think hes leaving and ask him if he wants to get coffee or something along those lines.
2007-04-15 05:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nicolle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's obvious he's interested in you,why not ask him out for a drink when you're both leaving the gym.Some guys just dont like being bothered when they're doing their work-out,dont be offended by it.
2007-04-15 05:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by nanook570 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about the workouts that'll get him to talk and go from there.
2007-04-15 05:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just thought you hate discuptions? lol.. anyway, you can walk up to him and talk to him.. Take initiatives wont make you lose out.. Guys who are shy need that :)
Go ahead..
2007-04-15 05:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Tsarey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to help u with something
pretend to hurt ur ankle and ask if he can help!!
2007-04-15 05:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋