Isnt it nice to think that God is always watching over us....?

Question

And even when we cry out to him when we are in our most miserable states, he does nothing but sit back and watch, our family dies of cancer and we pray to him everyday, but he just sits back and watches, almost like a person who, if we were drowning, would just stare at us, with a cold emotionless face.

my wife died of cancer a month ago, and so did God for me.

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Answer 1

Boy you dun turned that question all flip flop on us! dammmmnnnnn

Answer 2

Isn't it also nice to see people like you who blame God on things that you cannot solve?
Think well and study where all those things that you said came from. I am sorry to hear about you wife's death but I do not think that you should blame this on God and say He died with her too in your heart.
You know that prayers isn't enough to save life. Cancer is not an ailment that can be stopped when it is there already. It should be prevented when symptoms strike at early stage but if found in the time when it is too late to arrest; then, it will need the best doctor/s to remove it but there is no guarrantee that it can be successful.
For God, only the physical body dies, her spirit will live in you for as long you carry her in your heart but she too may even be happier if you should learn to let her go and live your life to a new beginning again. This is a detour in your life where you may find the new road to the destiny you created.

Answer 3

We all belong to God an dto Him we return. In the sight of God, there is huge reward for patience.

Death of a loved one is terrible. But, this is life and it happens.

God is real, and He loves you (even if you are the most naughty child in the world, or the most wicked adult). He knows all your weaknesses and struggles, and even if you go wrong (even in a big way) He still loves you. What He does not love is the wrong you have done – but He still loves you. He will never ‘turn His back’ on the person who is sorry and asks for help to be put right again – never! Even if everyone else does, and nobody else understands, He does, and He will never leave you even if you leave Him from time to time.

Regarding what u have written about God, it is totally wrong. It is not that ur prayers were not answered, but she had life till that period. When God gives us some sorrows, it doesn't mean that He wants to hurt us, but rather he is testing us, how we behave. Do we loose our faith or do we remain patient???
If u read about the Prophets, there are many Prophets who suffered with one thing ot the other. Like Prophet Jacob had suffered with terrible disease but remained patient.

In His Glorious Book, God has said:

1. Blessed be He in Whose hands is Dominion; and He over all things hath Power;-

2. He Who created Death and Life, that He may try which of you is best in deed: and He is the Exalted in Might, Oft-Forgiving;-

By giving us illness or some other calamity, actually, God is forgiving our sins which we commit knowingly or unknowingly.

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May God help you to overcome your grieve and may He rest ur wives soul in peace.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

God,is good,that is evolution,we all live and we all,each and everyone of us must die at sometime or other. He makes miracles but if he did what we all wanted then this world would be really weird, you are not the first or the last person in the world who has experienced death, Billions of people have experienced it,She is not gone from you she just lives in your heart now. Please don't turn from God now when you really need him.God is all knowing and he knows from the day of your birth the day you will die. It was just her time,luckily she experienced Love in her lifetime, some people never do.

Answer 6

I'm sorry about that.

I lost faith long ago, and found that while it may be comforting to believe that a big brother is sitting up there, watching over us, it just doesn't make sense. If you've just lost faith, or started having doubts, I think it might be a bad time for you, but don't worry, with the help of your brain and nothing else, you can get through it.

Answer 7

sorry to hear about your wife, but this is typical ..its nothing new.. most people stop believeing in God after someone dies and God didn't "save them". tragedy turns many away while it brings others closer to him. People expect miracles just out of the blue... some never even acknowledge him until something awful is about to happen and then they expect him to just SHOW UP and fix it all in a matter of moments.... thats unrealistic, by any terms

its like the dying man who asks for forgiveness ON HIS DEATH BED.. when throughout life he couldn't care less about God, but now he wants saving grace... how do you think this makes God feel. just as we feel when a friend ONLY calls on us when we need them... and then are angry when we can't help them after we havent even talked to them in years.

people die.. this is the essence of life, how do you know that she wasn't "saved"? you're defining it based on your terms.. kinda in a selfish way, by thinking about YOU and what God took from YOU and how YOU dont believe anymore... maybe she was suffering while here on earth dealing with this disease.. the fact that that suffering has ended for her could be the "saving grace". sometimes things happen for a reason.. its not always our place to try and explain them.

what do people expect God to do.. your request is no geater than anothers.... just think about EVERYONE who asks God to save them or their families from death.. if God did so NOONE would ever die... this would be tragedy in itself. what? is he supposed to keep us all alive FOREVER. this is not what life is about people... we live and die... period!

Answer 8

I too find it hard to believe in a God who just watches our lives like he/she's watching a soap opera. There's always disappointment in realizing that our 'imaginary friend' never answers our prayers, or in all probability does not exist.

May you find strength in dealing with your loss.

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Answer 9

u cant expect god to save everyone
people die all the time and people have to die eventually
grow up and stop acting like a child, im only 17 and Ive managed to grasp the concept of life and death, maybe you should to, and while your at it, stop blaming everyone else for things that are out of any ones control!

Answer 10

Its because when things were fine we didn't bother with him ask for his guidance or listen to his voice and so he just sat there and watched us. Now when things are bad that's when we want him to move. Seek first his Kingdom and all these things shall be added unto you. Not when things are bad we seek him and expect him to move because we want him to move. The secret is to seek him first through the good and the bad times.

Answer 11

God is involved in your life, my friend. We all have times and seasons where we feel that God is being distant and aloof, but He remains active and involved in your affairs, for your benefit long term.

Hard to hear, right now, but I am praying for you. Many condolences, sir.