Will my life ever get better....?

Question

or should I just end it now?
Ever since I can remember my life has been crap. I don't have any happy memories.

Answer 1

Things always get better, I don't know how old you are, but some of the reasons people have rotten lives is because of the decisions that they make. See a counselor and learn to make positive decisions that will effect your life in a positive manner, you also need to develop a positive way of thinking, I know it seems hard, considering where you have been, but this is a must, to come out of the pattern that you are in. There is a law of harvest, you reap what you sow, if you sow positive things, then you will have that kind of a harvest.

Answer 2

I am not sure who you are, how old you are or what is making you think these thoughts. I have thought that before as well though. I only think about this when something really bad has happened or if I am just so frustrated with everthing I break down. You need to figure out how to make things better in your life. Wether its quitting your job to find one your passionate about, going back to school, taking a dance class, or travelling. You need to find out how to fufill what you are feeling right now. If you cannot figure out what to do, I suggest talking to a close friend, family, or going to a therapist. Not that your crazy, but therapists can help you figure out your problems. I know you said you dont have any happy memories, but that cant possibly be true. How about the first time you made a new friend, or that time when you went on that amazing trip, or how about that fun day you spent with your friend, or that time you were with your family. If you feel you have hit rock bottom, then theres no where else for you to go but up,there will be better times.

Answer 3

My life turned around and it was crap. I had many tragic things happen to me at an early age so I began drinking. When I finally decided I wanted to be happy I started taking care of myself by not drinking. I have a depression problem so I decided to finally go see a shrink. After awhile I started taking prozac because I was diagnose bipolar. Prozac made it so that I could live my life better. It's not a cure all but it has helped. I was homeless and had no job. No money. Now I have a job and a place to live. When I was young I wanted alot for myself in life and when I didn't get it I felt like life sucked. What I learned is to have new dreams, different ones. And I had to learn to make me happy for me.

Answer 4

Yes of course it will!!! Dont worry live ur life for the moment and try not to think too much about the sad stuff in ur life. I'm sure things will get better for you=)

Answer 5

Yeeeees! Melissa God is the one and the only, the everpresent, the almighty. Hold on to him. Trust him girl, he says in the Bible, I have come that you might have life and have it more abundantly. That is his promise for our life here on earth now do you think he is a liar. Spend time with him, he even says again in the Bible I did not come for those who are well but I have come for those who are not well. Isn't that something to rejoice about to know that Jesus is here for you when you are not happy.

Answer 6

You can work through your problems.
Think about what you'd miss out on by dying if you haven't done them already.
1) getting married
2)having a career
3)having kids
4)graduting from high school
5)graduating from college
6)going to college
What's wrong with your life? You should see a counsler about whatever it is

Answer 7

I was often depressed, exhausted, feeling hopeless. I was very successful on my job, in fact, won a big award last year. I helped myself when I started going to Al-Anon meetings twice a week even though I had no active alcholic in my life- I had come from an alcoholic home years ago. I had no family support as a child or adult. As I mentioned I functioned fine at work (where support systems are in place for handling problems) but every day I cried as I drove anywhere in the car. At the time I won my award, one year ago, my emotions were so raw all day every day that it took all my effort not to break down hysterically in front of the crowd. I have learned that being a workaholic is almost as bad as an alcholic who is abusing their health. The Al-Anon wasn't enuf and after 6 months of that I also sought out counseling too. I am learning that I can NOT let others in my life get me so exhausted and angry. That I need to treat myself better. That, even if life seems hard and unfair, that it is me and only me that can make myself learn to rest, have fun, make friends, figure out what can make me a bit happier. I no longer drive to work crying and I no longer read books from 2 - 5 a.m. to get my mind off things. I was so exhausted every day. I now try to deal with my problems instead of avoiding them with the numbing pain of chronic insomnia. I got a sponsor in Al-Anon and she gently points out good things in my life that I should be thankful for. At first I could think of nothing good in my life. Nothing. Now I realize I have several good things going on and I can just grab at them and build on them. Yes, I have one particular on-going crisis going on (family member with drug abuse problems) but I must keep myself healthy in order to deal with that problem.
My counselor said that I had 'built ruts in my road" in my brains neural pathway, for how I deal with things, and that with effort, it would get easier and easier to react in new ways (instead of getting depressed and upset about things ). At first that felt like I was 'ignoring' the problem, to not spend my time all day giving my psychic energy towards worrying about it. But sure enough, I am finally getting those 'ruts' into a healthier groove. Good luck to you. Please open up to another person, but be sure it's a person who can help, not just some other depressed person who will just share your misery. That's another thing I learned, I had only sought out people who were in equal misery and also not dealing with it, cause then we understood each other. But they sure couldn't help me change.

Answer 8

For me I would say no my life won't get better thats just how I feel. but for you I don't know. So what you should do is go to counseling or your friends or family and ask them about this.