ok well i like this girl, lindsay, and i thought she knew. when i was ice skating with my friends i saw lindsay's best friend. since im going to ask lindsay out soon, i wanted to know if lindsay knew i liked her. i gave her friend a clue and she figured it out. she said lindsay thought i was only being nice. we are all 13 and dont say anything reguarding to being to young to date!
Questions:
1. Is this a good idea to ask her out still?
2. Will her friend squeal on me even though she promised not to tell?
3. What do I do now?
2007-04-14 18:23:19 · 13 answers · asked by Chris32 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Yes.
2. Probably, she's a girl.
3. Talk to her. Let her know you like her instead of hiding it.
2007-04-14 18:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by mrs_me19 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok I think you can do this fine, and I'm sure if it's something you want bad enough you'll quickly take actions.
1) Understand that nothing bad can happen from asking her out. I would think at your age most girls would say yes in a heart beat if they are asked out. But on the rare chance she says no, at your age you should easily be able to rebound and find someone else.
2) Too late, I know that her friends have already told her and they are conversating about what they think about you and what she wants to do.
3) I know this may sound unnatural, but drop everything on your mind and ask her out as soon as you can get a hold of her. Tell her truthfully and shortly of what you think about her without scaring her.
I also suggest that she'll be nervous too, so try and handle the situation in the most comfortable way as possible. Like ask her out while you guys are eating lunch, talking on the phone, or chatting online.
2007-04-15 01:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by The_Asker123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ask her out since you didn't get an answer from her friend and if her friend is any kind of friend she will definitely squeal on you and probably already has. Don't feel stupid just keep being yourself and make her wait now that she knows. And I was too young to date at 13 but that doesn't mean everyone is too young to date at 13. I know 31 year olds that are too young to date. Be smart and wait it out, you will soon find out if she likes you or not.
2007-04-15 03:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by CaTcHmEiFuCaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st - yes you need to ask her out and remember for every 4-5 girls you ask out or date you may find 1 that fits well with you so don't freak if she says no that just get one more of the wrog ones out of the way. Even the happiest people kissed alot of frogs to get where they are
2nd - GF are a different kind of person we don't follow the same rules you learned. BGF are tight they will support each other you will almost always be better off talking directly to her cause the GF wil tell her
3rd - See #1 but make it good even if she says no you want her to remember for a long time
2007-04-15 01:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by mtcfog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. If you want to ask her out go ahead. It will drive you nuts until you do anyway.
2. If they are good friends, yeah she'll squeal!
3. That's only something that you can decide.
2007-04-15 01:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Мəəĸά 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes.
2. Yes.
3. See #1.
2007-04-15 01:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Vegan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, ask her out. It is as simple as that. She already thinks you're nice, so show her your true, kind nature. If her friend is any friend at all to either of you, she will not tell. She made a promise, trust her to keep it.
2007-04-15 01:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 if you like her then you should ask her out still
2 if her friend squeals then it saves you some pressure but still ask her.
3 ask her!
2007-04-15 01:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hint to lindsay a little more and her friend probly help her take the hint and then ask her out or ask her friend what lidsay think's or just ask her out and don't play a little game of romance
2007-04-15 01:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
!) Deff. ask her out man...here's your shot at a girl you actually like...sounds like you like her a lot.
2) I think you told HER FRIEND that you liked her because deep down you hope that she would squeal...Go Go Go...
3) Go hang out with her and her friends so she feels comfortable around you...
2007-04-15 01:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by Duuuude no waaaay! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋