i have a superiority complex and i want to get rid off it so i can save my money
2007-04-14 13:40:33 · 9 answers · asked by betch 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sign up for something that you're not good at or have no experience at and that has a strict instructor. It'll make you realize that there are people that have mastered things that you have not and that you really are not all that superior to people in every way.
2007-04-14 13:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by Aurelia KMNO4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who told you that you had a superiority complex? Evidently you are in a social environment that does not support your thoughts and ideas. Are you trying to force your thoughts and ideas on to people, why? Find a more challenging social group.
Sounds more needy than superior. Has anyone ever said any of these phrases to you?; Okay And, So What, Get Over Yourself, or And Your Point Is. If not consider them said. It's not to make you feel bad but to let you know you are allowed to feel that way by the social group you share company.
You are a small fish in a big pond baby, with No Money! Get over yourself. Stop spending and save your money.
Join the peace corps, give some time to a juvenile detention center,or volunteer in a children's cancer facility for some humility! Become apart of a group where thoughts mean nothing compared to action and perseverance. If all else fails seek professional help. Superiority never feed the hungry or gave a hug.
2007-04-14 14:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by hammer&nails 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commit to volunteering at a Homeless Shelter and or Soup Kitchen for 3 or 4 hours a week for at least a year. You will get over yourself very fast. Perhaps you might even learn some humility if you are really lucky.
2007-04-14 14:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by spiritwise333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The quickest way I know to humble yourself is to enlist in the military and go to Boot Camp. Your superiority complex will change.
2007-04-14 14:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say to that is you need to tell yourself that you are going to put some money in a savings account and not touch it, and if they offer you a bank card to pull it out , after hours, tell them you would reither not have one now, cause you may end up getting your money out, when your are trying to save it. Or have them put it into an saving that you can not touch for a year or so, and make sure you put money in there every time you get paid. You are going to have to do this for yourself, not one else can do it for you. You need to find your will power, and use it to help you save some money, put aside for a rainy day.
2007-04-14 15:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please elaborate.
Well, as far as thinking you are superior--trust me when I say that life will humble you eventually--as you lose the very thing you work hardest for and cherish the most, and the people you look down upon will be the ones helping you to survive. After you see their light, sincerity, and good heart that will cause them to help someone who has been so cruel to them--you will realize that it is You has been inferior this whole time.
Peace
2007-04-14 13:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, instead of changing your complex to make yourself smaller....just find another way to make money...allow yourself the havingness...and allow more to come into your life...
don't let someone tell you that you should feel smaller...
What does superior have to do with saving money anyway...
unless you give too big of a tip...and BLOW money to be ahead of the Jones family next door...
In that case...move to a rural area...where you have no neighbors...and you won't have to worry about competing with the cows...
You know I am joking right...?
Anyway....just figure out how to make MORE money...
You can DO ANYTHING YOU PUT YOUR MIND TO...JUST FIGURE OUT A WAY TO DO IT AND THEN..GO AND DO IT...
If you fail......so what.......just get back up and try try again...
and again and again and again...finally you will succeed...
Most of the inventors...had huge failures...then finally they made it...
Did Opra.......pull down her superor feelings...No she just made more money...
Did Trammel Crow the US largest builder pull down his feelings...No he just kept building...
Did Donnald Trump...now the most famous builder pull down himself after he went bankrupt.....No...he found another way to make money...and then kept borrowing and building...
go for it !!!!! : )
2007-04-14 13:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by dayze2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know I am probably a lot older than you and am still just as you describe. Study cynicism it has greater depths than sarcasm.
2016-04-01 02:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
money is for losers. as long as you're better than everyone, they will be willing to pay for everything for you.
2007-04-14 13:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋