Do girls like to cuddle?

Question

There's a girl whom I'm not technically going out with but we've been flirting a lot with each other, in class. I got her number and now we're going to see each other out of class. I can honestly say that I'm not looking for sex out of this, but I really want to cuddle her and touch her (as in massages and stuff). Do girls like this stuff?

Answer 1

Yes, girls/women do like to cuddle!!!!! Too many times we hold off on the cuddles cause some males believe that it is always a precursor to sex. How wonderful to hear a male say "just cuddles".
Depending on your age, you could make a wonderful partner. To have some one who wants to do more than just sex is my idea of a good man, and massages are wonderful!
But having said that you do have to be in the place in your relationship where that is appropriate. When you and your partner are comfortable with it. So go slow, and relax, you seem to be on the right track.

Answer 2

Yeah, girls love to cuddle. It's a refreshing change that a guy is not out for sex. but your hormones are obviously working well. I'd hold off a little on the touching and cuddling, it's basically foreplay. Try buildling friendship as much as you can in the meantime. That's the foundation.

Answer 3

It depends on the types of girls. If its a shy girl then she expects for you to do something that would show you love her like try holding hands or start off with less of a touching. Then further on as both of your chemistry builds up you can start cuddling and doing the stuff you want to do. If its a girl that wants your love then just go right ahead, most of the girls i assume like it cause it shows how much u love them and they feel protected and warm if its cold outside.

Answer 4

It depends. You shouldn't really rush things, like to touch her (not necessarily in a sexual manner). You should observe how she acts around you, observe her body language. It's perfectly OK to cuddle with a girl, you just need to make sure she is comfortable with doing so. Maybe ask for her consent? In a cute way say something like 'you're so cute, I just want to wrap my arms around you, would you mind that?' In some way you should imply that you want to get a little bit closer to her. A random massage might be a little bit awkward for her, so you should definitely ask her first.

And yes, girls like to cuddle, it gives them a sense of comfort and warmth. I personally love cuddling/snuggling/spooning. ;-)
Hope this helped.

Answer 5

i guess u should probably ask her out to make it as you both bf's and gf's. but...with that...touching and cuddling may take time. firstly u should maybe ask her 2 the movies on a weekend and see how u go on with that. or ask her over your house for a few hours and watch a dvd. that way, the girl u like may feel the same way of hugging u or may even kiss you on the cheek meaning she wants you.

dont be shy 2 ask her for a hug/cuddle. of course all girls absolutely love hugs/cuddles!!!

as you said u aint into sex with her, thats kool....

Answer 6

After the medication wears off, the girls usually call the police and place a restraining order against me. So, I guess the answer is, yes, but only for a few hours...check the back of the medication to get specific times.

Answer 7

I used to

Answer 8

as long as you dont become some needy clingy boyfriend, no matter who you are people like their space
girls prefer the thirll of the chase, they dont always like knowing they can have you any time they want, they sometimes lose interest so hug her but seem kinda stand offish, she will appreciate it more when you do cuddle instead of getting bored with all the cuddly wuddly
and if you desperatly want to cuddle
build a bear workshop
is at the nearest mall
;)

Answer 9

Very much so, try just putting your arm around her see how she reacts, and then maybe just try and massage her shoulders a bit. If you are the affectionate type, you should let it be known, so you dont end up being frustrated., good luck

Answer 10

absolutely. matter of fact, if i had'ave received that attitude, rather than the one that most guys have when they're trying to get you in the sack, they'd have gotten further.

we love the touchy-feely, the sweet and deeper when it comes to guys and getting to know them. i'm not really girly but i do love for my boyfriend to give me a nice hour of cuddling to soothe my worn nerves. much passes between two people in that time. emotions float between both and create a bond that's indescribable.

go for it!