what should i say or do are there guidelines??? what are some things i can say?
2007-04-14 12:57:34 · 24 answers · asked by matthew b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't need a reason why you love someone, you just love them
2007-04-14 12:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by STAT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do u love her?
Ever read Browning's poem, "How do I love thee...let me count the ways?"
Seriously....
there are so many ways to tell her why, but it might be even more important what she wants to hear that you do feel.
Have you considered hand-writing a copy of a poem that talks about love and giving it to her?
Have you considered writing down the two, three, four reasons and just thinking them thru and telling her?
Have you told her, in addition, or besides all of the above, that you are just so darned tongue tied and shy that it is very hard for you to talk about how you feel, but when you are with her you feel so much more comfortable?
2007-04-14 13:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by margot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try writing down the reasons when you are by yourself and can think about it without any pressure. Then practice saying some of those things out loud, so if she asks you again you can give her a couple reasons. Better still, after you've sorted it out in your own mind, make a point of telling her some of the things you love BEFORE she asks you. You can do it.
2007-04-14 13:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take some time - when not under pressure - and just ask yourself what is it about her that is so special to you. Just think of the things that make you smile. Keep these things in mind so the next time this comes up you can say "I love the way you .....".
As to a list, its not possible. She wants to hear whats in your heart, and we can't know that better than you. Please don't just focus on the physical - she wants to know you appreciate her for more than that.
Good luck!
2007-04-14 13:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her then you can say anything.
Here, try this:
"I love you. I love you as the sun loves the morning dew. I love you as the Falcon loves the wind. I cannot imagine being without you. When you ask me why I love you I cannot reply for I do not have the words to express, lest to say that I could no more cease to love you as I could cease to draw breath, for to do either would steal the life from my body and deliver me on to the chilled embrace of Death."
Classic poetry always works.
2007-04-14 13:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Henry W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that same problem, loving someone so much you almost forget how to communicate. But communication is the big part of any relationship, you will have to reach down and figure out how to express how you mean. She and you will be glad in the end!
2007-04-14 13:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, you'd better say something! Think about it. What about her do you like/love. Is she your best friend? Does she make you happy by always being there for you? Does she make you laugh? Do you share similar likes and dislikes? Do you feel like you can be yourself around her? Come on, get in touch with the reasons she is your babe! She needs to know!
2007-04-14 13:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Melody 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL... I ask my husband the same thing. We just want to hear something romantic. It like a way of getting you to say something to wow her. Tell her the first thing that pops in your mind. Then ask here if she has about two more weeks to sit there in your arms so you can tell her the rest. That gives you time to get your thoughts straight, and its super sweet.
2007-04-14 13:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by jessie_ann2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone, those three words don't even need to be said, because it is already known. Just by the way you might look at her, or smile at her, or by the words you say to her when the two of you talk alone. When she asks why all you just have to say is, 'do I have to say it' and just speak whatever silly words come to mind, it could be anything, just be yourself.
2007-04-14 13:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by Eliza 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hold her hand, open car doors for her, send or bring her flowers...look into her eyes and smile...she will know. Sometime you dont have to say anything. Actions speak louder than words. The words will come.
2007-04-14 13:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by natashainka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try writing all the reasons why you love her, like a list. from 1 - whatever nummber you want. when your done with it, take her out some where, or have a romantic dinner with candles at your house and read your reasons to her
2007-04-14 13:18:09 · answer #11 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋