did you ever stop to consider how we feel??? the girls always break my heart. . . . . so stop complaining, you deserve it. now you know how it feels!
(cause i have gotten hurt so many times.......
2007-04-14 11:05:50 · 32 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or am i dating the wrong girls?
2007-04-14 11:07:02 · update #1
maybe i should start being the mean guy rather than the nice guy
2007-04-14 11:07:36 · update #2
i think that no one deserves this treat men and if you are a really nice guy that maybe it's the girls that you are dating and not you. My advise is don't turn into a mean guy cause then you'll never keep a good girl for sure. just wait it out. The right girl will come. Girls complain about being hurt because they have to get their feeling out somehow. if we girls keep it in too long it will all come crashing out at once. and BAD things can happen. By the way i am 15. but i still know what i'm talking about cause i have been in this situation lots of times. i hope i could halp with you problem.
2007-04-14 11:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ sissy beth ♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't "always" do anything, so that's a mis-statement from the get go.
As for being upset, I've known as many guys as girls that have complained about break ups and broken hearts and hurt feelings...when one is emotionally hurt, it's not uncommon to talk about it.
Deserve it? Maybe some do "deserve" to be broken up with...others have things ended just because the chemistry wasn't there...it had nothing to do with "deserving" to be hurt.
Apparently you haven't dated much, don't know a lot about people, and are upset because of your own experiences so you feel it's okay to lash out at all women rather than examine your choices, your actions, and try to improve things in the future.
With maturity, hopefully will come enlightenment, and better experiences, for you.
2007-04-14 11:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey now- Ace, not all girls deserve it and not all guys break hearts! everyone has gotten hurt, you just have to move on.
u should go into a relationship knowing that u will either break up or get married! never forget that Ace, u still have tons of time to find the right one!
don't get angry because of ur past- forgive and move on!!!!
and keep being nice- no one like a mean person!
2007-04-14 11:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well true, we do tend to complain alot about, but if we lose someone and we really loved them we and you should be sad. It's a terrible feeling. We are hurt just as much too that sometimes, unfortunately we can only think about how we feel because we are ourself. But then we will get to think about you guys later. No one deserves anything in a mean way. And don't change yourself, because everyone gets rejected and if we never get rejected what we will never experience of we really call love. And yes, I have been heartbroken many times, but hey! I'm still smiling and walking with my buddies!
2007-04-14 11:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start by being the mean guy, all you will attract are the insecure "little girls" who think they want a bad boy, or the kind of women who are strictly in it for the sex. You could also possibly scare off "the right girl". Then you'll just wind up getting your heart broken all over again. If you're looking for something meaningful, then be yourself. If a woman isn't feeling the real you, then you're better off without her anyway.
2007-04-14 11:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by dorky_goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls obsess over things and do not hide their feelings as well as most men do.
Being a bad guy isn't the answer.
I can only tell you that love has a way of finding you in its own good time. Try not to hurt anyone or to get hurt in the meantime.
2007-04-14 11:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by d-d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously a girl just brok your heart and your trying to take it out on all girls...all girls are not the same I don't complain about a guy breaking up with me if he doesn't want to be with me then tuff luck for him maybe you shou;d just tell the girls that broke your heart how you feel and stop trying to take it out on everybody else.
2007-04-14 11:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no don't do that... you really have been dating the wrong girls, but if girls are constantly breaking your heart then you might have to do some soul searching, maybe there's something about you that drives them nuts, it might be really shallow and minor..... but so are most people around us..... Im sure you're a great guy, stay true to your self cause when you find the girl who deserves you then you don't wanna drive her away by being the mean guy......
2007-04-14 11:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because guys always whine about girls breaking their hearts. Believe me. Move on and date other girls. You'll find the one eventually.
2007-04-14 11:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most girls are far too whiny and shallow. You're just dating the wrong ones; if they can't recover after you dated them, they're really too weak and defenseless to be worth dating at all. (I, for one, despise whiny "girly" girls; I think if they're going to complain that much, they shouldn't bother going out with anyone in the first place!)
2007-04-14 11:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by dee_pwns_you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋