because, i dress moderatly. i am fairly tall (people say im tall and handsome) and in generall i am in a military posture. and i tend to isolate myself (in large gatherings)....but how can i make girls just want to talk with someone.........
any tips?
2007-04-14 10:57:13 · 13 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would you want to "appear" like someone a girl would want to meet? Wouldn't you want to BE someone a girl would want to meet, instead of looking like one until she gets to know you? Be confident! How you explain yourself, I'd want to meet you! You sound attractive, confident(with the military posture), I like tall guys and there is nothing wrong with someone who dresses moderatly. When people you're supposed to meet come around, you'll meet them. :o)
2007-04-14 11:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ramon's Wifey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ace, ur really nice.....just be nice to everyone and don't isolate urself! why don't u want to be around everyone else when ur with a big group? A girl is gonna want the guy everyone is talking to! the guy she can't get is the one she will desire! But really all u should do is be urself!!!!!!!
how tall are u?
2007-04-14 11:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her tender, and gentle.Treat her in the way you want to be treated. Talk to the girls your interested in about the things they like. If you don't know much about the subjects they like, find good books about those subjects at the library. Give her compliments about the things you like. Take care, and best wishes.
2007-04-14 11:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by gemandsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile is an introductory easy way then comes the attitude ... try being spontaneous and don't over react ... be responsible and honest. Believe me that's most of the girl search for.
2007-04-14 11:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off stop being a pussy. then act like a badass all the time (if you arent a badass) if you are keep being one. then get some nice clothes, get some **** that people dont usually have.........like go get some diesel jeans or something, and just act like you are better than everyone. if you isolate your self in a large group people you need to open up, talk to people, make people laugh. From my experience girls like bad guys with bad attitudes, like myself, i am stationed in oklahoma but i grew up in new york, so people think i have a bad attitude, but the ladies dont seem to mind ;)
2007-04-14 11:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your tall and handsome, so you say, get out there and mingle. Start talking, it's not hard, let people know you exist!
2007-04-14 11:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think just lighten up. be open and have a friendly or happy disposition...even if its not in your nature, fake it...becuase it will eventually become a part of you, kind of like practice. appear to be enjoying yourself, and do not stick to one area in a room. dont be afraid to be seen alone either, that indicates that you are confident enough to be independent, and girls find that attractive...and it makes you approachable.
2007-04-14 11:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by akb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't dress up be yourself and girls will like u 4 who u r
2007-04-14 11:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by wanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendsly, generous, Falstaffian.
Stop being "cool".
2007-04-14 11:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
besides weaing a mask i can't think of anything off hand
2007-04-14 11:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Hey Moe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋