English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

when he gets mad he says d***it. we always tell him not to say it, but he doesn't understand that it's bad! HELP.

2007-04-14 10:40:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

26 answers

he is two and he is geeeting a reaction when he says it so intea dof jumping on him or responding to it ignore it (it will be hard) and if he goes a day just say how proud you are that he did not say that word. and soon he would realize to postive reastion is better then negative and stop saying the word or tell him instead of saying that word use anthor word me and my sister used to say **** but my mom told us to say SHOOT and i still never use that word I say Shoot have him say Darn it or a sill word that be would rember like "Eyeball " lol dont worry he is very young and this will soon stop good luck

2007-04-14 10:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

damn isnt really a swear word, but if u want him to stop saying it, heres an idea. if he says it or any other form of bad language, establish a place like a naughty corner or step, and thats where he is put when he is naughty, he will then realise that if he keeps swearing, he will go on the naughty step/corner, therefore, he'll learn not to swear and be a good boy. this can apply to any bad behaviour a child commits, like shouting, talking back, being rude, physical violence etc.

also, dont use those words in front of him, i know it can slip out, but if he sees that u arent using those words, he will use u as an example and also learn not to use those words.

i hope this has helped you =]

2007-04-14 10:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by btab12 2 · 0 0

regrettably, the criminal device in maximum worldwide places is incorrect, and a grown guy raising a youthful woman is frowned upon. the best ingredient he can do is shop on with the certainty, and record each and everything. If I have been him, i might record suspected abuse formerly stiring up something which could make it seem as though hes framing the spouse.Plus, if he's worried, he could record it for his or her saftey. tell him to not have telephone conversations with the mummy, and to maintain each and everything in writing. That woman sounds plenty like my mom. My father have been given custody of me, however the criminal conflict took 12 years. Don’t talk undesirable approximately the different determine to the youngster; which will purely harm the youngster. If she comes back with bruises, he could take photos, yet not tell the youngster that he's shooting of the bruises. while i replaced right into a new child I’d have grab marks on my forearms, so my dad took a photograph of me feeding my chicken peanuts on my shoulder, I didn’t be attentive to he replaced into documenting the abuse, yet in photograph you are able to locate the marks, and he used that for the period of courtroom. He needs to record each and everything, yet bear in mind what's in print is presented perpetually, so he could in no way write some thing on an identical time as he’s offended, or write some thing which may well be construed. i wish that what ever the best ingredient for this new child is, that she gets it. This conflict is approximately assisting her, and in no way, ever ignore that. even if how bitter the divorce, it is not the youngster’s fault, so don’t make her go through.

2016-10-22 04:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

My two year old son liked using the F-word. We ignore him whenever he said it, and did not pay him any attention. He eventually stopped saying it. Of course we make sure that we do not use any offensive language around him too. Try to teach him and tell him it's a bad word, and if that doesn't work try, do not give him any kind of attention when he says that particular word. Kids are different. I hope this helps.

2007-04-14 10:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i have a swearing lil sibling too so i understand how you feel first of all find the sorce of his swearing. My sibling sweared because he saw this pg-13 movie that should of been rated R. but anways if he is swearing cuz of this show he watches or a family member then tell them to stop or block certain channel/ratings. everytime he does it you should get your parent or you to punish him (not physical) but give him a time out. he is most likely doing it for attention at his age. don't pay attention to him when he does it. While he is doing it make him feel bad for example stare at him in a angry face or look disapointed in him for what he did. most likely he will understand better that it is wrong behavior that gets him in trouble,gives him no attention,and makes people disapointed in him. hopefully he will stop that behavior

-good luck

2007-04-14 11:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by confused25 1 · 0 0

maybe check with the rest of the family to figure out who he heard saying and therefore who he learned it from. If not at home perhaps a caregiver? At age 2 babies are copy cats - they learn from what they see and hear. Tell a 2 year old NOT to do something doesn't work. They learn by imitation.

2007-04-14 11:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by teritaur 5 · 0 0

Ignore it, my son is three and he has from time to time said some things we have not approved of. If he doesn't understand that those words are not for him to say then ignore it. Besure not to swear infront of him, he may be using the swear words to get attention, so when he swears don't react to it.

2007-04-14 11:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by grosefamily 2 · 0 0

I would wonder how he heard it in the first place. When he swears i would ignore him. I would redirect him to something else and I would say something loudly so he could hear it, instead of swearing I would say oh darn...he might pick up on that instead of the swear word

2007-04-14 10:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by awickedlady 2 · 0 0

First of all, take away any cartoons or superheroes, anything that is corrupted and not positive, regarding the bad words, tell him that those are potty words and if he says them again, he'll go to time out. Next, is he listening to bad words?because kids minds are like sponges, anything that they listen to, they memorize it and repeat it. Watch what he listens to now days and reward him when he doesnt say potty words. Good luck!

2007-04-14 10:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Spanish Princess 1 · 0 0

He's too young to understand. Just ignore it for a while. He may stop by himself. ALSO, everyone in the family should really try to stop saying it. He must have learned it from you.

2007-04-14 10:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 2 1

fedest.com, questions and answers