do I have a right to be mad?

Question

I have been going out with this really popular girl who has quite a lot of x boy frends and she has kissed them all. I have a feeling I am being just another one of those guys but Im not because a lot of people like her becasue shes "hot' but I think shes pretty but I also love her personality. do I have a right to be mad

Answer 1

Do not be mad. Get to know her better and find out what her intentions are with you. You might make your relationship different for her this time:)Good luck

Answer 2

I think you've answered you're own question.
Be mad .... but at yourself for falling into the same trap all the other guys before you have fallen into. It's only because she's "hot" that everybody is there for her to end up dumping.

Get even ... don't go for the "hot" girls ... go for girls who are pleasant, interesting to talk to and spend time with, those who are cute and like you for who you are.

If more guys did this ... then the "hot babes" wouldn't be so "hot" anymore ... or at least they wouldn't be able to treat the guys like trash.

I wish you more self-esteem and hope you can gather the strength to stop following the crowd. Who wants to be some girl's 20th x-boyfriend anyway! Doesn't say much for the girl or the guy! Right!??

Answer 3

No. Her exes are her exes, you don't have a right to be mad unless she's still kissing them. The only other reason you'd have a right to be mad is if she was using you. The fact that other people think she's "hot" is a compliment to both you and her. To her because it means she's beautiful, but to you because you're the one she chose to be with.

Answer 4

"Mad" about what? That she has ex-boyfriends? Or that she kissed them.

Buddy, you can't change the past. If you can't get over that, you need to find another girlfriend and so some heavy thinking about forgivness.

I'm not really sure what exactly you are "mad" about.

by the way, MAD means crazy.....I think what you mean to say is ANGRY.

Answer 5

well is she officially your girlfriend?? if she is not... sorry honey you cant get mad at her, because she has no commitments to you. but if she is your girl you have the right, because she is with you and that would be like cheating if she does keep looking these boys and kissing them. if she is not doing anything and u r just getting to know her and datting calm down a little thats her past

Answer 6

No one has the right to be mad. Life is but a game. Don't take it too serious or it won't be fun.

You are only just starting to learn about girls and people in general. See how smart you can be about it and leave out the drama.

Answer 7

It's not about a "right"...you feel how you choose to feel...however, what would be the point in being mad? If it bothers you that she's dated and kissed other boys, then break up with her...she should be with someone who likes her for who she is and how they enjoy her company...it's her business who she dates and kisses, as long as she's not a cheater.

Answer 8

No you do NOT have a right to be mad. YOu knew who she was when you got with her and what she is like. Either accept her, or stay away. How do you expect to earn her love if you're starting out being angry and jealous.

Answer 9

Wow, a guy that actually likes a girl for her personality. First of all, your not mad, your probably liek the first boyfirend she has that loved her personality. And how many ex boyfriends does she have? and who broke up with who?

Answer 10

Mad about what? Because she's popular? Sounds like you aren't sure of her loyalty more than anything else, and if you aren't comfortable with the relationship, break away.