i like this guy and he likes me alot back and my friend sdont think its a good idea because they no what he a capable of. i havent known this guy for a time time but they have and they said he may not be who i think he is. i see the good side of him because he lets me in and hes nice to me. they say he can be a jerk but he hasnt been to me. what do i do? should i listen to my friends or keep liking this guy and go out with him? i dont want to get hutr but i dont know what to do. help please
2007-04-14 10:00:05 · 21 answers · asked by allieeeepie_246 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to your friends. Avoid the hurt.
2007-04-14 10:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's 2 choices.
1 is that maybe your friends care about you alot and are protecting you because they don't think "he's" the one for you. Maybe they do know him, but not the same way you do. They question you have to ask yourself is, "do i like him this much that I would not listen to my friends and be with you?"
2 is that you could try to know him a little bit better, and tell your friends how you truly feel for him . This kinda stuff bonds friends together. I have a best friend and she hates my bf and always insult each other, but now since i told her how i felt she stopped. If they are truly your friends they would understand.
2007-04-14 10:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to really get to know this guy first then follow your heart and listen to your head. You will know in time if he's right for you. Just because your friends doesn't like him doesn't mean he's a bad person. He may not feel comfortable around them as he does you.
2007-04-14 10:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by sunchine girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont date him myfriendwas in the same situation... thas how it starts they are nice to u at first and get to do stuff theyr way then soon after they call u names and soon afer all of that he will brake up with u for a stupif reason. FRIENDS KNOW BEST!!! (but what ever rocks ur boat this is just one guys advise)
2007-04-14 10:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by francisco_j_c_o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, friends don't know best. I went out with a guy for over a year, I was very happy with, him, and he was a great guy. But for reasons unknown, my friends couldn't stand him. They just never saw the side of him that I knew. Explain to your friends your point of view, and maybe they'll understand, or at least stop bugging you about it. My friends always disliked him, but I learned to just ignore them, and follow my heart. Eventually we broke up, but I'm glad I didn't break up with him just because of what my friends thought.
2007-04-14 10:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by consumingfire783 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once fell in love with a girl I went out with. Only problem is she chose her friends over me even though we knew we were both in love. Just one friend broke up what could have been a lasting relationship. Please don't do that to this guy, if you like him it's your decision and your choice. The hardest thing I ever had to do was say goodbye to the woman I love.
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~Tony~
2007-04-14 10:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should listen to your friends. Alot of times, they see what you cannot see because you are too involved in the situation. I know that this has helped me in past relationships.
2007-04-14 10:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to what other people say, you may be missing out on a great guy.
If you like him, express it to him, show him. Like him. Friends don't always know what they're talking about...
unless you can get signs from this guy that he is like "that" in a bad way, go for it babe.
2007-04-14 10:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Wayne D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you blinded by your feelings for the guy or is he an *** , you need to see this clearly
how he treats other people when you are not around will give you a pretty good idea what sort of person he really is.So are your friends believable??
2007-04-14 10:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by letsfoolaroundsomemore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its good to listen to your friends. there are alot of times guys can be charming(nice), but sometimes after he gets you, he can change and become abusive- not always. i think you should follow your heart, but as soon as you see any abusive patterns get out. some examples: jealousy, and controlling where and when you can go.
2007-04-14 10:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by jackie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋