Is it right for me to tell him how I feel about him or not?

Question

I am wondering if I should go ahead and tell this man how I feel about him even though he is in a relationship. I am wondering if I will always wish I would have told him and risked rejection instead of never telling him how I feel. They say life is short etc., but would I be doing something completely wrong? If you don't say anything, you'll never know, right? What should I do? Just move on? Anyone ever have a similar experience?

Answer 1

Yes I've had this exact experience twice.
On the first one, I told him how I felt about him, and he said he was in love with her, and that it was nothing against me. But we don't talk much anymore.
On the other one, I told him how I felt, and he said that he wanted to see where things were going with her etc.
but he said that he wasn't saying i didn't have a chance, and a week later they weren't together anymore.

so it could go either way, if you want to risk it, go ahead.

Answer 2

I think you should. As long as he is not married. Rejection is not the worst thing in the world. Ya never know, maybe he feels the same. Is he worth the try?

Answer 3

Tell him u won't lose anything, so just tell him, like u said this life is short and if u don't do things u might have liked to do u are oing to regret it later on, so live ur life u only have one. That is what I have been learning recntly, that I have eto take risks, because if I don't I won't live my life how I want to, u have more fun, and if u take the risk to do something qand it works u will be so happy and won't regret taking the chance u took.

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

Answer 4

If men were interested they let you know, thats the way it works. They aren't interested in woman that offer themselves they prefer to chase===you'd be seen as a loser honey. If a guy is interested even if he is disabled he'd let you know fast enough and you couldn't get rid of him. Kinda tarded aren'tya!

Answer 5

I don't think you should tell him when he's in a relationship because it just might add more problems or hurting.