A few years back I got out of a long relationship…. then went a little wild time to catch up on everything I had been missing. That was fun ….a lot of interesting experiences. Now I'm busy with work now but have a friend that invited me to sleep over at his place last week. It turned out to be hot …. well good for the both of us.
Definitely looking to hook up a couple times each month…. I like the idea. Because a steady guy would just be too much at the moment.
What is everyone's opinion? Please be mature enough to answer
2007-04-14 09:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like fun....go for it!!!
2007-04-14 09:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Peter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends, a lot of women aren't able to separate sex from emotion. That's not a bad thing, it's just something that some women, and some men can't do. If you are able to have a "friends with benefits" relationship with this guy without having feelings of jealousy, or feelings of wanting more, then go for it. If you have even the smallest amount of doubt in your head (that you won't be able to keep the two things separate), then don't do it. It's a hard decision that only you can decide on.
2007-04-14 09:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by joteach03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are happy about it, then let it continue for now. Everyone has their needs and we need to get it from the right person. Certainly a steady guy would be able to give you more but you won't be able to appreciate them at the moment, so whats the point of hurting him? I'm not saying what you do is right, but this certainly is a suitable package deal catered to you at this point of time. Just watch out and don't get too emotionally involved. Afterall, inside the box lies emptiness. At the end of the day a steady guy will be what you need.
2007-04-14 09:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by henry_fy7d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think a "buddy" is perfectly fine. No strings attached, no games, it works well for both parties. Being that you both know and accept what you're getting into, there should be no problems. However, if you sense that you are catching feelings or visa versa, then get out of the situation, especially if you don't think he feels the same or your not comfortable enough to express your emotions. Go ahead and enjoy yourself.
2007-04-14 10:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its good,I'm like that with one of my mates (obviously not 2 far because of reasons and I'm 15 lol) and i don't know,he hasn't got the time for a relationship considering circumstances and I really don't want one,so it works,and it means were not going out as such,so i can still flirt and if i wanted get a bf and he can do the same.But it lets both us know that there will always be someone there,although we are that close mates it is emotional too,kinda like relaxed going out.GO YOU!
2007-04-14 10:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by kez_124 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as the both of you understand that it is only for the benefit of "having fun" and be able to not get emotionally attached when either one of you goes on another date then i say go ahead and have fun.
2007-04-14 09:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Felix759 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never had good experience with friends with benefits. Sooner or later somebody trips and falls into the "hey, i genuinely like you" abyss (i've been guilty of this a couple times, admittedly).
2007-04-14 09:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by John C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once you've casual sex than you'd be extra of an merchandise to him than someone he truly respects. in basic terms get over him. If he's a participant it signifies that you're going to in no way experience free with him.
2016-12-04 01:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both if U like to hook up for sex, why not. Men and women need regular sex, believe it or not its actually healthy for you.
I say, have fun and enjoy.
2007-04-14 09:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id watch out, because even though its nice, he doesnt have respect for you, otherwise he wouldnt be using your body to gain pleasure without a commitment. Plus emotions are bound to take over, its something that cant be helped, and your nothing to him except a booty call. Dont do it, if you need "it" that bad im sure you can help yourself. pardun the pun
2007-04-14 09:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by srilanka_everquest 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
friend with benefits is a good thing because you don't have to be stuck with just one person and if you want to go out you don't have to answer to anyone
2007-04-14 11:23:18 · answer #11 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋