2007-04-14 09:20:17 · 33 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have done so an several occasions and have few regrets BUT I can not commend such an approach to all girls/women. I have no idea of your age but if you are young (certainly if still in school or if you have only limited experience with guys) I WOULD URGE YOU NOT TO HAVE SEX ON A FIRST DATE. It can all turn out very badly, and as I say I do have a few regrets, most from when I was 16-19 when I do not think my ability to judge a guy was as good as it is now.
Hope this helps.
2007-04-14 09:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Skyblue Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on your definition of sleep "to close eyes" or "sleep" have sex. I have not yet understood why people call having sex "sleeping together". I'm sure you are referring to the latter, in that case the answer is no. I would never "sleep" with someone on the first date." To me it means there is no respect for yourself or the other person.
2007-04-14 09:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by sunchine girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
After I had a very racey first day, I really wanted to. The guy was gorgeous. But I knew it would have been the biggest mistake. When I met him, he basically told me he couldn't wait to get a few drinks in me and get into my pants. He promised he was only kidding.
I'm glad I didn't because he turned out to be really lame.
2007-04-14 09:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm a real good looking woman and I say no. If its about getting layed, let him get it otherwise. What do you want here======== figure it out, ask women you admire. They'll tell you little sister. Join a church, a youth group but ask a godly woman why to wait. I would pray for God to bring a true man for you in your life. Your precious remember that.
2007-04-14 09:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends... i mean, if you've known him as friends for a while and u start goin out or whatever, why not...? i mean... that's acceptable... i dont go sleeping around w/ random dudes, but i mean... ive done it before, but i wouldnt ever... cuz then thats usually all their after after that... i dont trust guys if they wanna sleep w/ me right awya b/c even if they seem sweet they're jerks after p****y (cough cough, my ex darrin)
2007-04-14 09:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think i would, i wouldnt want to look like i want quickies all the time and thats it. Long time relationships and getting to know your date will be best, not going straight in for the kill head on.
2007-04-14 09:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by patricia a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mmm that depends on the guy.. if you know straight away nothing serious will ever develop and you dont want a relationship then yes.. but if u do.. take it slow.. after all guys dont like easy girls..
2007-04-14 09:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by x_sofia_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-04-14 09:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure people have, you can do what you want, but think of what the other person thinks of you after you do that
2007-04-14 09:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you dont know what he wants, dude for all you know he could rape you and all becasue some dumbas$ on here said that you should. So, no i dont think that you should you don't know what they want on the FIRST date. So yea.
2007-04-14 09:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋