i want to spilt up now and he thinks it will work
In my eyes he has exhibited a tendancy to spare my feelings and to try not upset me by lying or not revealing things he feels I will misinterpret
I believe this is the proof that somthing is a big deal
if he doesnt agree why hide it \
He is upset because he feels he is being punished without doing anything wrong
Is the relationship going down anyway or do I need to accept that dispite his habit of hiding things that he would never do would tell me if it were what he considers a big deal
I believe that he is the last person I should give that trust to decide how big a deal it is
considering that he does filter information is that not proof that he would not tell the truth if it were a big deal
shouldn't I be the one to decide what is a big deal and what isn't
Is it time to cut and run now or stick it out hoping i am wrong
2007-04-14 09:13:41 · 10 answers · asked by aubry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you dont think it will work then why are you holding on? you guys need to do some serious evaluating of your relationship, separately then compare notes.
2007-04-14 09:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're right about the qualities...trust is a big one for a stable relationship. But so is communication. First you must let him know that it is important to you that he tells you the truth about everything even if he thinks it might upset you b/c it is not fair leaving you to assume things b/c your relationship will never grow. if he is not willing to accept your terms and work on it, then he obviously isn't up to a serious relationship so move on. if he can't tell you the truth then he doesn't love you.simple as that.
2007-04-14 16:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by youngpoet07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not hear to answer this question.. You answered my question about adam and eve being symbolic and then you said Jesus was also symbolic... I read what you said and Have an idea of what you meant but I didn't get it fully. I would be very thankful if you were able to explain in more simpler terms what you meant.
Thanks! I would appreciate it very much!
rynort@yahoo.ie
or just throw your response in another one of the questions I asked
2007-04-14 17:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by ry s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust yourself hon, you got it right! Don't give your power to any man, your instincts are right for you. Soon you will be the heart of a family home and I'm sure you already know how you want that loving marriage to be. Sounds like the right deal to me. Be true to you!
2007-04-14 16:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your instincts should be followed. If you are strong enough to like someone who disagrees with you or can honestly say things you don't want to hear keep him to the curb and get someone with enough balls to make you happy.
2007-04-14 16:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by wonder Aloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You appear to be a very controlling person....... A control Freak... I think you need an attitude adjustment....... You would drive me away with your behavior...... The truth sometimes hurts, but you will get over it..........
2007-04-14 16:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think no lying to each other from now on, and that will gain your trust back together.
2007-04-14 16:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Heather♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're kinda cute. May I call you when you dump this guy who won't be honest with you?
2007-04-14 16:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave skid marks, girl!
2007-04-14 16:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him if you feel this way
2007-04-14 16:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by astateson111 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋