Me and My ex-boyfriend have been on and off for 2 & 1/2 years...we are currently best friends and both very into God and our relationship with him. We talked it over and i told him that i miss being with him...he told me the same thing and that he loved me so much and i'm the only person he can see hiself with but he said that now isnt the right time...i respect that but i want to be with him so bad and it kills me because i know that he is the person that i'm supposed to be with...it's hard to be patient...
what do i do!
2007-04-14 08:40:13 · 21 answers · asked by Morgwen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could still spend time with him like good friends do.
if need be, have other people around in a social setting. it's all good.
2007-04-14 08:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the two of you have expressed to one another how you feel and he has said it isn't the right time for him, then you have no other choice but to respect his decision, pushing him on the issue would only result in him most likely pulling away from you, just remain a best friend to him and wait for him to get to the place he needs to be to commit to the relationship you both want. It may be hard to be patient, but it's better to be that than to be with out him in your life because you can't be...Good luck..=)
2007-04-14 15:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by kittin67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I can advice you:
If he truly is your love,your husband to be,just be patient.If God plan is for you 2 to be together,God is making the perfect plan for this to become real. You must wait,cuase time tells everything. Just make sure not to loose the contact,the caring and the love,but dont pressure anything. He will tell you when he is ready,when God says the time has arived.Pray a lot,but ask God to make His way into your relationship. Keep believing and trusting,it will come good. Remember Love is patient and kind.
2007-04-14 16:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by nezi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there!
This is why I don't agree that you should stay friends with someone you loved before.
Males usually think in a rational way. But we females think with heart with emotions. I know, I've been there...but all I gained was a broken heart...cuz he didn't love me but he wanted o be my friend...whoa what an illusion.
So you have two choices..: either to wait while he is ready, or second option move on and find someone who is ready for you all the time in every single minute.
Which sounds better? I guess the second option.
But I'll leave it to you...I hope that your heart desire will come true.
Good luck!
2007-04-14 16:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Aquamarine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I think were taking about you wanting sex here, not a relationship. Lets get honest with yourself. Marriage is darn hard. You don't sound ready for that by this jargon. Take a hot shower change seeing him for two months, if you see others and at the end of two months want to continue, you will at least know more about how you personally feel about him as a husband. You sound way to hormone driven to think straight-no marriage should be started like that.
2007-04-14 15:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give him a second chance. By the way, why did you two break up, if it's cheating, just keep a close eye out. If it's fighting, call it off when there's a huge argument, if it's just not feeling it, try and spice it up a little this time.
2007-04-14 15:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by Maria M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this isn't a good answer- but I had a very similar experience and I seduced my boy into being with me. It worked wonderfully and now we are in a very dedicated relationship going on I think five years.
2007-04-14 15:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by kit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look just like Marilyn Monroe.
Go out with a new man. Then pretend like the new guy hurt you or disrespected you, and run to your ex in tears. Then you'll find out if he really wants to be with you or not.
2007-04-14 15:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray. God will give you the answer. I HATE waiting on the guy i like to ask me out (kinda a different situation. i kno). i have no patience. just remember that you always find what your looking for. god will give u patience. u just have to (that awful word again) wait!
2007-04-14 15:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by countrygal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait Maybe somethings up with him right now and you need to respect that
2007-04-14 15:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋