right basically long story made shortish..
me and ex broke up about 2 months ago, because of arguing at that time... and as all single men do he started to date around straight away but kept telling me how he still didnt know what he wanted, that he needed to stay friends with me..
but ofcorse that didnt work, first time we met up as 'friends' we almost kissed but i didnt let it, even though i wanted him so much and because it hurt to know he wasnt mine anymore, i told him it had to stop! we would still txt eachother after a bit.
after a month i wrote him an email telling him how i felt... we kept emailing eachother.
So a couple of days ago he called me at night to say he misses me alot, everything is messed up and empty without me.. i saw him today and he said he meant everything and he wants only me in the whole world and at the moment its so right then he kissed me.. we both are casually seeing others, thing is i think its always been him for me.. i just feel it in my heart...
2007-04-14
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➔ Singles & Dating
aahh..the true love feeling..when u say "i just felt it in my heart" i straightaway tot of my true love..
Well this is by right a complicated situation for people who had found their first love...(and then they break up)..
You see there's this one person that u meet in ur life, that will always be there...even ur not with them..and this is ur true soul mate love..
What i believe is when u leave ur true love,all relationships after that would be meaningless and not enough ..though u do love,have passion with the current but u just cant let it go all out coz deep in ur heart u have ur 1st loves name kept there...
One day i believe when the time is right, u will get back to him and he will get back to u.. when that time comes, both of u will just realize u need to be together forever...
Dont rush it...maybe u guys just need a break time from each other.. dont involve sex or anything yet coz that'll just mess up ur mind.. let emotions come out first...
If u were meant to be, u will be together..
If not physically , maybe ur soul will always be one..dont worry..
If God forbids, theres nothing u can do...but i assure u, for u to be able to find ur true love...is a blessing..
Coz some people never felt what u feel ever in their lives even
Good luck and let time do the work..
ciao
2007-04-14 08:48:32
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answered by kim_stolz 3
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Been there girlfriend. Move on now! Relationships that are not smooth in the beginning=== don't get better! That is the rub--you get it or not. Marriage is all about working it out and he has to be in your cornor eary on---else its just fighting. Save your good energy for working it out with Mr. "I love you all the time" not the guy who can't make up his mind for 5 seconds.Advice: if your dating others don't stop now for this guy for at least a year=the rest of your life will thank you.
2007-04-14 08:40:13
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answered by kim 7
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It's now not excellent whilst you have got to see them virtually eveyday and you understand that they are so closed to you. Time is the only manner and if you wish to accelerate it you must seek a way thoroughly disappear out of your ex. I guess that's the satisfactory method for you.
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answered by piekarski 4
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what you feel in your heart could be God talking to you, maybe you need to talk back to Him to get a good answer. Life is too short to be unhappy. If you are truely in love and don't feel like being together is a waste of time, then stay with him... however, if he is playing you & filling his void w/ you when he feels like it, then you don't need it...life is too short, I've been divorced and working on remarrying, I have found God again, and life is good, awesome... amazing, and being w/ my x I never knew happiness like this existed... if you feel like you can't live without him and you are the happiest you have ever been then when you are with him, then stay with him and it will work... Life is too short to settle, you are too good to be second place, too! Good luck & be happy
2007-04-14 08:34:46
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answered by Thankful for so much 2
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Woow I think he is not playing and he seems sincere..so go for it ..you like him a lot so dont waste your time!!... He seems sweet!! just talk to him, before starting dating again and tell him that if you are going to date him..you dont expect no casual dating with anyone else.. good luck!!
2007-04-14 08:35:38
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answered by Lala 1
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hmmmm well hmmm u should do whatever u heart is saying cause it's sign right when it comes 2 love ur heart is like ur conscience telling u who to love and who not 2 love just like ur conscience telling u what's right and telling u what's wrong
2007-04-14 08:36:18
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answered by goodies make the boys jump on it 6
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Follow your heart, make a decision and stick to it!
2007-04-14 08:39:40
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answered by pretty asian 5
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I think you should give it another go if you both feel the same
2007-04-14 08:33:56
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answered by clou1552 2
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i think you should folow your heart
2007-04-14 08:32:58
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answered by dede 5
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froget.
2007-04-14 08:32:09
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answered by Anonymous
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