The girl i m talking abt is in my class only.I love her so much that I can't even stay without seeing her or either her pics.She talks with me in a general manner .So pls suggest me some ideas abt how can i come to know that she also loves me or not & also suggest me some ways by doing which she gets impressed with me.I m very serious abt her.I want her at any cost.Also tell me how do i propose her & what's the exact time & situation when i can propose her.She as per my knowledge is of very reserved nature.What should i do? My days r getting worse & worse in her memories.
2007-04-14 08:20:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"the easiest way to lose something is to want it too much"
2007-04-14 08:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by trumanburbank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy, love is not an emotion, it is a choice and an actions. Relax, you do not even know her yet. Where does she come from? What is her family like? What is the most important things in life to her? What are her biggest dreams? What is her purpose in life? How does she react when her integrity is challenged? Would you be able to order for her at a restaurant and be confident that she would like it? Are you confident enough in yourself to not be jealous and trust her with every ounce of your being and in every situation? Do you know her sense of humor, her hobbies and her hair gel? What's her favorite purfume? What does she cry about? What puts peace in her heart? I ask all these questions because you do not really know her yet. Here's a couple of questions for you. What is most important to you? What are you passionate about? What kind of man do you want to be? Do you want to live by integrity and with purpose?
The best advice I can give you is this ... become the man you want to be. You are valuable and worthy with or without her. She may be beautiful, smart, funny, whatever, but you are not dependant on her. Do not worry about proposing, are you capable of providing for her? Are you prepared to give her everything that you did not have growing up? Oh, wait, you are still growing up. Friend, listen, there is a lot of life left, take you time, enjoy the wait and you will be surprised with the results.
I gave you a great list of things that would be good to know before you even think about marriage, or, in this case, dating. The more you worry about these things, the lower your chances are of getting to really know her.
Relax and become a great man because this world is in short supply of great men!
2007-04-14 08:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her.Act mature and like a gentleman not like an immature kid.Don't make your attraction so obvious that she's freaked out.Just be yourself, and try to become her friend.Start from there and try to find out her interests.Just be yourself because the ones that care don't matter and the ones that matter don't care.I don't mean to be rude but it's not love.Love is when you know the person well, and there's a deep connection between the you two.I don't think you should propose because that reason and that you're young.
2007-04-14 08:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Marla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite your passionate declarations, you don't love this girl. You don't even KNOW her, fercryinoutloud!
You're infatuated with her. "I want her at any cost". Good grief! Grow up! Nobody worth their salt wants a lapdog or sychophant for a partner. Sheesh!
Better yet, grow some stones and simply tell her "I'd like to take you out for a coffee (or whatever) and get to know you better. Would you be up for that?"
A woman appreciates a MAN. So show up like one. Stop cowering in the corner and fearing her (or her possible rejection of you) and R E L A X.
She (and you, for that matter) ain't all there is to life.
Trust me on this: start with looking her squarely in the eyes, smiling, then saying "Hi!"
-- it costs you nothing and works like a charm with nearly everyone. Go ahead. It's your move.
2007-04-14 08:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by D M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Guy, slow down! This is a turn off, don't let emotions get the most of you. Why the desperation. She ain't going to like it! Whooa! How about lets have a starbucks after class? Prounouncing love is weird , are we eighth graders? if so still slow down, ask her to a movie. She may surprise you yet with traits you may not like so much. This is a crush attitude and that means a fantasy in your head---you don't really know her and she doesn't have to like you by the way-Trigger!
2007-04-14 08:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like puppy love to me! Okay, you say propose, do you mean marraige propose? I'm not sure, but it is impossible to find out if a person truely loves you or not. If it is marraige then slow down, WAY DOWN! You'll freak her out. You need to at least know her for a year or more to propose. Take a chance and ask her out. Don't be as desprate as you are or else she'll think you're a freak. I can't help you on finding out if she loves you, but I can help you strenghthen your relationship.
2007-04-14 08:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Maria M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isnt called love...its only lust. You dont know the girl yet to love her. And how can you decide to propose to her when you dont know everything about her yet? You need to slow down on your plans. Just need to tell the girl how you feel about her first then ask her out. Then see where things go.
2007-04-14 08:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her u like her n then ask her if she likes u back. id say dont really tell her, rite off the bat, that u luv her b/c to me that would scare me off n flatter me. if u u two get together let a few months pass n then tell her how u really feel n how long u have had those feelings for her. u should probably act like a gentleman, give her flowers, do nice subtle things like pull out her chair, n open the door etc. hope this helps!!!!
2007-04-14 08:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really love her then let her know that you really really really love her. Women can be sensual and at the same time very reserved. How do you know what lies in her memories of you? Tell her how you feel and take it slow or you may scare her.
2007-04-14 08:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if theres a dance coming up ask her their and yall should spend alot of yeArs to spend together.
You shuld propse at a romantic place with flowers and sented candels.
You shuld also buy her 2 dozen of roses and a box of chocolates and the box should be in a shape of a heart
I hope this will work for u and this girl
2007-04-14 08:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't propose to her right away. Take your time, and HER time. Become her friend first.
Good luck.
Just be nice to her and hopefully everything will work out super.
2007-04-14 08:24:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋