Do i have the right to be upset or angry?

Question

Here's a quick rundown of the situation...
Basically last night me n my bf had a little fight and afterwards we just started asking questions about each other on things we just are curious about or have crossed our minds. Well i asked him if he ever thinks about anybody else or wonders what it might be like with somebody else. he told me he looks at other girls and notices and pays attention to physical things but in a relationship no. im not mad that he said that because i asked the question and wanted to know the truth and thats what i got. What bothers me is that i am very self conscience and uneasy about the way i look. so when he told me that and started commenting on some of my friends bodies, it made me upset because they have bodies that i don't have, and it makes to feel like **** that he sees that. and everytime he sees a model or girl on commercial, in a bikini or anything he says something about it and it kills me cuz i know i dont have that. ill never get in a bikini now

Answer 1

Realize real quick that the difference between mature love and immature love is that thin. That if he really feels better looking at these ladies then he does, lets say just sitting next to you, you've got a problem. See love is so much more intense that it kind of destroys what other people can give us. Most people never realize that and never get to see the world in that light, that nothing can compare to that, that they love. If he isn't on that level then its pretty possiable that you've got ever right to be insecure... because relationships are not based completely on physical appeance.... but it could be curiousity which is just as damaging, people never realize how appeance's is the most shallow level of a relaitonship... theres much, much more deeper waters and you guys should play as much as you can in those, then in these... don't be scared thou thats a common, truthful answer for a guy to say... he didn't say he wants them more then you did he? he didn't say man I wish you were like that did he? Yea on an animal level alot of us guys would love to having something more, but that doesn't mean we don't love what we've got... its hard to tell one way or another thou and his actions will speck volumes... you guys just keep up the honesty, and q and a session should be common thing in the relationship there is not reason to keep anything from your mate. This stuff is good for the friendship which is at the core of any deep fulfilling relationship.... you guys just keep relating and the bond you make will be beyond anything he could ever hope for from them.....