How can u tell if someone likes u?

Question

how can i tell if a 13 year old guy likes me

Answer 1

"How to know when a guy likes you

Here are some things to look for to know when a guy likes you:

1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch her/him staring at you.

2. Take notice of whether s/he smiles at you a lot.

3. Look for whether s/he focuses on you in a crowd.

4. Observe if s/he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.

5. Pay attention to any significan't changes in her/his behavior toward you recently.

6. Start showing her/him a bit more interest and see how they respond.

7. Have a friend talk to her/him or one of her/his friends about you.

8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?' Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading her/him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique.


Here are more explanations from FAQ Farmers:


The easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set closer boundries for you and will therefore not mind your closer-than-normal presense.

One of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases you or makes fun/jokes.

He seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more sensitive.

Boys might not tell you directly, but they may tell someone. Or perhaps when you are not around but your friend is there he will ask for you.

You will know if a guy likes you because he will not hesitate to make eye-contact; he will either stare if he thinks you won't notice or hold your gaze when you catch him in the act (if he has a lot of confidence). If a guy is interested, he will also go out of his way to be as near you as possible without being obvious. Of course, the rules don't apply to all men, but generally, if he likes you, you WILL know it, without a doubt.

I'm a guy and I think it depends, and different guys are different. Eye contact and attention isn't always the best way to tell. If a guy is shy he may get intimidated by girls he likes and actually make less eye contact

I'm a guy, and I find it real hard to let a girl know I like her. I try to be funny, I smile (because I can't help it), I try to be close to her, but I can't verbally let her, or anyone know. Many guys have the same problem.

I'm a guy. If a guy is into you, he will ask you out, or he'll most definitely go out with you when you ask him first. There are no exceptions to that rule, unless he was with someone else at the time and wants to be true to them. So unfortunately, if a guy does not go out with you when you ask him out, he does not like you.

Here are some of the signs: he acts distracted when he's around you and fumbles for things. From the corner of your eye you think he is looking at you but when you look up he turns away abruptly and you think you are imagining things. He tries to like all the things you do. Your instinct tells you that he feels for you but your rational part says you are sure to be wrong.

I think you can tell if a guy likes you if he always looks at you, he always wants to see you smile, he doen't like it when other guys talk to you, he looks at you when you are doing something, he follows you places, he doesn't know how to act when he is with you.

A guy is interested in a girl if he says "yes" to things she asks him to do. Time is very valuable to a guy, and if he is obliging and generous with his time, a girl certainly has his attention. Especially if he's a busy guy, he'll make time for a girl if he likes you.

He will make you feel special. He will be romantic. He will not move too fast. He will consider your feelings and take things slow.

He will show off, sometimes on small things. (For example, my crush at the moment was drinking infront of me, but then stopped when I said it was uncool.)

I knew a guy who would try to embarass his friends when they were around me. He wanted to look funny and seem cooler than his friends.

Sometimes a guy who likes you can behave in a very confusing way and be hard to understand. It might make you wonder whether they like you or hate you.

Shy guys like me will most likely tell their friends. Some will be confused if you flirt with them because they have never had this happen before, so they don't know what to do. Most guys don't do things unless they know exactly what they are doing. Girls just confuse us.

A guy likes you if he: 1. Makes fun of you. 2. Has cute little nicknames for you. 3. Remembers everything you say, in the smallest most insignificant conversations. 4. Finds any excuse to touch you or sit next to you. 5. Talks and looks at you differently than other people. 6. Talks about you with your friends.

A confident guy is easier to read. He'll make eye contact. Shy guys can be very hard to read but there are some sure signs: They might be looking at you but if you look back then they'll quickly look away. He will always laugh at funny things you do. Don't get discouraged if he talks more to other girls. Shy guys are very attracted to outgoing girls, so don't be afraid to be outgoing! Here's what you can do: when you're in a group of people and he's there, ask to the group if anyone would like to go on a walk, or go do something with you. Be sure that it would be a two person activity. If the guy you like agrees, then this is good. You can guarantee you'll have a good conversation with him if you ask a lot of questions. Be sure to tell him if you have soemthing in common.

Confident men who aren't afraid to stare at you and ask you out may just want you for the sex.

Sometimes a guy will pretend to flirt with other girls in your presence, to make you jealous.

I tend to like shy guys, so it may be hard to read them at first. But, once they open up, they give you their confidence completely. I find that they will: 1. Make eye contact with you, then look away when your eyes meet. 2. Always be willing to help you our or do you favors (like rides home, or physical work). 3. Will always look for you in a crowd, then when he finds you will act like he doesn't see you. 4. Will laugh at all your jokes/will try to make you laugh. 5. Talks to his friends about you. 6. Mentions activities that you are interested in so there is a chance for you two to do them together. 7. Will always find a reason to talk to you or touch you in any way. 8. Pokes fun at you, but in a nice way (unless he is very young and immature). 9. Seems genuinely interested in what you have to say. 10. Remembers little things that you've talked about before a long time ago, and brings them up in conversations to let you kjnow that he remembered. 11. He will always stare at you, and your friends may notice it too. 12. When you are talking with him and your friends, he will only comment on something that you say, or will look at you whenever he speaks. I hope that these help, but remember, you can't always rely on physical things. I think that most of all it is a feeling. If he likes you, your instinct tells you. Go with your gut. Don't let your logic tell you any different.

I highly recommend the new book: "He's just not that into you." It is so right on about how to tell if a guy likes you! :) Actually, the first rule of thumb is that a guy will ask you out if he likes you. To get him comfortable enough to do that, all you have to do is smile and seem interested in him as a person (just in case he's the shy type).

A guy who likes you may tend to notice new things about you, and compliment you.

The truth is, most girls can tell if a guy likes them. If you get the feeling that he likes you, you're probably right."

Answer 2

Hi Hon, If a boy likes you he will talk to you alot, he will be around alot, and he will want your attention good or bad., but believe me you will notice him at you one way or another, because he will be a constant. Bye the way this does not change the rest of your life. All men operate like this except the very shyest ones and if a man is that shy you don't want him. 13 is a time to do things with others activities in groups, like roller rinks, events, skiing, swimming, sports.

Answer 3

Ask him.

Or look for signs..
is he nervous around you?
showing off around you?
staring at you?
extra nice or behaved around you?

Is he giving any of those signs towards others?

Whatever you do, don't worry if he's not attracted to you because a lot of 13 year old boys aren't in to girls, yet. Plus, you don't want to ruin a good friendship for the future over some two week dating thing now.

Answer 4

hey im 13 too ok well usually before a guy would ask me out he would teese me a lot flirt with me then ignore me then flirt with me and he would id cath them staring at me like they were in a trance and theyd trip me in the halls then catch me and push my books down then go ohh did i do that im sooo sorry really sarcasticly as he helped me pick them up and theyd playfully insult me and all the stuff flirting comes with but if you think hes one of those jerks you does that stuff to make fun of you behind your back with his friends flirt back and if thats the case then make it look like youre doing it too with your friends but abouve all see how he acts when neither of you are around your friends or anyone else then youll just know

Answer 5

Gut feeling!

Answer 6

always excited when he sees u :) always looks at u in the eye and smiles... always talks to u and want to hang out with u :) asks about u alot ... stuff like that ;)
i hope he does like u ;) if thats what u want :)

Answer 7

well 1) he might give you signals
2) he might ask you who you like or if you have a boyfriend
3) he might hang around you more
4)he might be a HUGE flirt

Answer 8

the way he looks at u , i'am a guy so i know

Answer 9

How to Tell when a Guy Likes You

These are based upon my opinion. Here's how to Tell when a Guy Likes You

Steps

1. Identify how he acts around you. Does he seem to be staring at you? Does he seem like he wants to get to know you? This is a definate sign that he might like you.

2. Examine how he speaks. Does he Stutter or mumble when your around but not when he's around other people? You might get a hint that he likes you.

3. Look at his friends and him, does he seem to be pretend that he's talking to his friends, or is he trying to observe, you?

4. Does he poke you? Play with your hair? Another good sign he might like you.


Tips

* If he gives you a hint, make sure you give him the hint back, or he'll never know you like him the same way you like him!

* Ask him questions. Never give him yes/no questions. He'll feel like he's not explaining alot from doing this.

* Try a little wave or a smile. Smiling/Waving does work alot for many people.

* Be yourself. If your not going to be yourself, he'll think your a rude person, and you do that to everyone else.

* Join Clubs, or any event he might be in, you'll get a better chance of talking to him if you don't see him alot!

* If he's shy to talk to you, don't worry! It's obviously a good sign to be shy. Open up to him, just don't make him look like a fool or his self confidence will drop alot.

* Share interests. If your alot like him, you have an absolute chance he likes you. Practice in the mirror if you don't know what to say, it helps.

* You never know, he might be more shy than you. You will know if he's shy, by his body language. It takes alot of confidence to succeed.


Warnings

* Be Careful. Guys can give mixed signals. Even just the slightest wrong move and your gone.

* Don't try to be a whole diffrent person, After all he might like you the way you are now.

* Don't send friends over to do all the speaking for you. He might think your trying to play games with him.

* Don't question yourself if he likes you or not. Never be insecure about yourself. Your just going to lower your self-confidence.

* Never give a note to a guy, your not sure is the right one for you, especially if you don't know him. It could cause a habit, and won't do you any good in future relationships/crushes.*

* It's good to have some fear around your crush, but don't go overboard or he'll think your just a little too scared to handle someone like himself.


Things You'll Need to Keep an Eye out for...

There r way to many signs to just have one clear one because guys show how they feel in many diff ways...

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
*He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it

* He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)

*He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

*He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.

*He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.

*He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.

*He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!

*He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."

*His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.

*His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.

Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.

*His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)

When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)

*He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)

*His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'

If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.

*He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)

*He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.

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