my best mate, has just found out the her boyfriend has been cheating on her. Her boyfriend has said that he doesn't want to hurt her (abit dumb cos he already has). What do men really mean when they say that?
2007-04-14 06:56:22 · 17 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are saying, " I am sorry I got caught and that I am too much of a chicken sh_ _ to tell you I want to end the relationship." Peace and God bless.
2007-04-14 07:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Men are only trying to cover up what they have done by saying "I don't want to hurt you".
It makes them feel better when they say that to the girl they have just cheated on, if it was actually true then he would not have done it in the first place.
Tell your friend that i know it hurts just now but in the long run she is so much better off without him.
xxx
2007-04-14 14:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hes sorry for how things have turned out. It's a polite way of saying the relationship is over but he feels guilty about it having cheated. You all sound quite young and don't need to keep analysing this. Support your friend and help her move on.
2007-04-14 14:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, Speaking for all the good men, tell your friend tht I am very sorry. Sad thing is guys and gals are both guilty of this.My X said the same thing. Personaly I believe they will someday reap what they sow ! Sincerely, Lonewolf
2007-04-14 14:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like u said hes already done the damage.the problem she will have most of her life now is she will never trust men.tell her forgiving isnt a good idea as u never forget and it will creep up at every argument.and now the trust has gone from the relationship,the rock of foundation has left.its like living without a heart relationship on slippery sloap to being over
2007-04-14 14:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by fairy_gdmthr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont want to get caught my friends husband cheated on her, you know her Tinkz, it went on for a year and a half , she knew as he was so different but he twisted stuff and really messed with her head, she was cleverer than him though and proved it eventually.
Men will deny it till the end , they dont want to hurt but they do it anyway, really they want it all and not get caught.
2007-04-14 14:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means, oh my god!! I have been found out that I am shagging around, and it is the first thing any person male or female say to the long term partner)
It hurts to anyone who has to hear and not only for the first time either.
Just get rid of him, he doesn't love you enough!
2007-04-14 14:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by The_Informer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably didn't really want to hurt her but he unfortunately let his bit between his trousers take the lead.
he says that as an escape clause to try and lighten the blow and make himself feel less guilty!
2007-04-14 14:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They mean, " look i don`t want to hurt you but this is soooo over. I wish i could just walk away now and never see you again and then i wouldn`t be stood here talkin like a fool when i really want to be with HER...."
Get it....? .
2007-04-14 14:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by yahoobloo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all just a lie to try and make up for their mistake...so i assume he's just trying to get her to forgive him now so he has someone to stay with but can still go out and screw around with other people...
2007-04-14 13:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋