Ok, so this girl I am REALLY interested in and I have gone out socially (like at a club with friends) a couple of times.
Went out last week, danced with each other for a couple of hours. It was great, and it wasn't like she was going out and dancing with other guys, just me.
The other night, I meet my buddy, and this girl out at a club. It was my friend, his girlfriend, and this girl. This girl and I once again had a great night of dancing together and the vibe is definitely there.
I take her home. I figured I would just drop them off and be on my way until the next time we meet. She asks if i want to come upstairs. I say yes. We get up, and she immediately asks if I want to stay. I say yes. Nothing sexual, just spent the night and slept closely, talked...all of that. I gave her a kiss on the cheek and said thanks for letting me stay. We talked on the phone for a little bit that night. So where do you see this thing currently at? with how quick it's moving.
2007-04-14 03:54:39 · 16 answers · asked by John H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's moving at a great pace. It's not going too fast or too slow really. It sound like you guys are at the beginning of a relationship that could flourish into something really special. And if that is the case - then you don't want things to be moving too quickly. Aww.....that's sooo cute.
Lucky you. Good luck with things....I hope it all works out well.
Peace :)
2007-04-14 04:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by *lostdownhere* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, then slow it down. Even staying in her bed and not having sex was too soon. You're putting the cart before the horse. Ask her out - get to know her better. If she likes you, you'll know. Look in her eyes. The eyes never lie. Good luck
2007-04-14 11:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say take a chance. The connection is definitely there. If you think that it is going to fast, then slow it down by going on some dates. You're in a good spot.
2007-04-14 11:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by TragicLoveEnding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is moving at a decent pace. A little on the quick side, but hey...it's 2007.
Props for not just diving in!
Treat her well, and good luck!
2007-04-14 11:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by dejectedpunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a lot like the exact situation im in right now. we went out a few times with friends, spent then night together just like you did. it was goin good, so i just asked her out on a date, we've been on 3 dates now and its goin pretty good. so, just ask her if she wants to go out sometime.
2007-04-14 10:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by ( -_- ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this if you already know the answer? It's clear you both want eachother. Just say it and then the together thing will be official!
2007-04-14 10:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sunny(: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you find it going very quickly>?
Have you talked since that night?
She obviously is very interested in you, and you were well manoured~ Good luck with everything*:) Keep on smilin*
2007-04-14 10:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is interested in you. Why don't you ask her out on a date?
2007-04-14 10:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you and her are on the right track... it's time to have a few one on one dates... and some more late into the early morning talk fests... take your time and offer her as much respect as she demands... it doesn't matter who leads as long as the other is willing to follow... enjoy each other's company...
2007-04-14 11:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make me nervous. She is a pretty fast girl. Beware.
2007-04-14 11:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋