2007-04-14 03:19:29 · 20 answers · asked by nick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow. that's bad. what are you doing. wow wth no it's not normal
2007-04-14 03:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok if you are just having sex for the sake of having it,using ur spouse as a tool to relieve stress due to work load..but think about it,have you ever made love to ur spouse? you may think i'm nuts...like what the hell,ain't love making and sex the same?WRONG! love making adds some caressing,a touch of gentleness,and is over powered by love not lust!sex is just "ooowwhhh baby,hot body,hot stuff,i'm in the mood so let's have the bang bang session and be off with it"..and i think that's where you come from..my dear,love making comes from the heart,sex comes from the need of the body.. what happen to the love you used to have for your spouse 10 years ago?when you stood at the altar and said i do? once that comes back,do have sex or love make with your spouse-whatever you call it...this time,show your spouse how much you love them..and i believe,you will enjoy your intimate relationship with your spouse...i hope this has helped you
2007-04-14 03:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by black queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal psychologically!! Being married myself, I agree with you that the intensity and frequency of sex lengthens but total lack of it is not just the right thing.Probably you both have found a way of hiding your inability to satisfy the other partner by not doing it.You should find ways and means of getting aroused and do it when the time is right!!! Kindle the youth in your mind and act like you are young-everything will be alright!!!
2007-04-14 03:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not normal to not have sex with your spouse. You've grown apart, and it's also affecting your sex life. You and your spouse need to talk about it. If the two of you can't resolve it, you may want to consider seeing a marriage therapist.
2007-04-14 03:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tweety 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think its normal, making love or having sex in a relationship especially in married people like u guys is necessary to maintain a physical and emotional relationship coz making love is an expression of emotion. romance keeps the relationship intact. so if u guys arent doin it anymore.. somethings wrong. and u have to communicate and find out what the problem is. coz if u dont the 2 of u might end up cheating.. good luck to the both u.
2007-04-14 03:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Xiao17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intercourse existence with your substantial different constantly ameliorations after a infant is born. comprehend why? as a results of fact a infant is born. your total existence ameliorations after a baby is born, all of us comprehend that. Now, i bypass to ought to bypass out on a limb right here and say your husband has no clue you experience this manner and would not see something ''incorrect'' with your marriage such as you of course do. shall we face it, he's a guy.. no guy will bypass months without single concept approximately having or beginning intercourse. "you do no longer bear in mind the final time" ? I guess he's remembering once you rejected him some days in the past, and doubtless even the time previously that. in case you pick a divorce, get a damn divorce. do no longer string the detrimental guy alongside believing there is wish on your marriage to bypass returned to ''primary'' returned once you're patently no longer fascinated in attempting to make issues artwork. you experience undesirable? you in all probability would desire to experience undesirable. that's of course a feeling that hasn't in simple terms come to you in one day. that's no longer some thing you could in simple terms enable stay and want it is going to bypass away. take care of it. you're a mom now which potential you're an person as properly, time to act like it. in case you think of you the two deserve extra suitable, then break up and circulate on. that's of course no longer a healthful situation for a baby to be raised around. If those thoughts emerged those days after the beginning of your 2 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old, did it ensue to you in line with threat that's postpartum melancholy? seek for help. that's no longer healthful. a million. in simple terms been married a three hundred and sixty 5 days and a nil.5 2. in many situations adequate. How in many situations we've intercourse performs no place in how happy i'm.
2016-12-16 05:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by cheng 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal try talking to your S/O about it or go on a second honeymoon or try making an appointment to have sex during the week or on the weekend, Sex is like the tides you have high tide and low tide and not always is your partner going to be on the same cycle as you but you have to get it working again
2007-04-14 04:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is real wrong there,you should be having sex well in to your 80's maybe not as often but at least once and a while,maybe she need to see a doctor and have her hormone level checked.
2007-04-14 03:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet you and your wife had great sex when you guys was bf and gf right! Well she figure she got you and sex isn't what define a marriage and our love is far greater than that right! That the same bullsh*t as* song my friend wife told him that's why he has a "fu*k buddy" Do you get my point!
2007-04-14 03:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's normal, then I am never ever getting married.
Seriously, man, that's bad. I'm predicting a divorce. Maybe you should see a sex therapist.
2007-04-14 03:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as the two of you are feeling fulfilled and complete within your marriage, it's perfectly fine to not have sex anymore.
2007-04-14 03:24:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋