There is this girl that I have liked for two years and I told her that I like her and she said she'll be my friend.I want her to like me but she likes some other guy and there is four other guys that like her.how can i learn to let go of her?
2007-04-14 00:23:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find another girl, duh! Its obvious she not interested in you, move on, quit wasting your time
2007-04-14 00:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by David S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I'd say the best way (if you want to forget about her) is to go out more and find another one who is attracted to you. Obviously the chemistry you feel for her is not returned the same. It's a shame that we (humans) are so complicated. I do know for a fact though that females in particular tend to have a certain attraction for a certain kind of bloke. She will choose her man, regardless of how much someone cares about her. You will need to find the ONE WHO has that attraction towards you, even slightly, (to get your foot in the door so to speak). Good luck, hope love finds you well. :)
2007-04-14 07:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny Palmist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there always seems to be people in our lives we encounter who we like that do not like us in return the in the same way. On the other hand, There will be others who will like us and we will not like them in the same manner.
Sometimes, this is a blessing in disguise. You may not know or understand it at the moment, but you just have to accept it and go on. Sometimes this person may be a better friend than they would have been a better significant other.
Know that their will be someone else who will knock your socks off. Do things with your friends and do not obsess about that person. Do not think about what if she liked me, we could have been doing this or that. It wouldn't have worked as the feelings weren't mutual and you may not have ended it even as friends. You may not have liked each other.
Some are better off as just friends.
Find other people to do things as a group of friends. Have fun with them. You may meet someone else down the road. Best wishes to you.
2007-04-14 07:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since I was in the same situation, what I did was:
Generosity- I started to sponsor a child in Africa, Uganda, it feels good and makes me feel important towards helping someone else...generosity teaches you many things
Try new hobbies
Go out, have a good time, and meet new people...you will see that there are many single women out there who are willing to be with you...
2007-04-14 07:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>>I want her to like me but she likes some other guy and there is four other guys that like her
Four other guys?! And you are asking how can you learn to let go of her? Are you joking?
2007-04-14 07:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by S c a l p e r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to forget something.
2007-04-14 07:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see her again, occupy your time - study, work, read - do your hobbies. After marriage you will love your wife more than you think.
2007-04-14 07:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by abo0jehad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let your heart decide. Not other people for you.
Hope this helps.
2007-04-14 07:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl.
2007-04-14 07:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some other girl who is attractive and chase her.~~
2007-04-14 07:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone better! that normally works!
2007-04-14 07:26:12 · answer #11 · answered by MiZz RuBy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋