There's this girl that keeps on messing around with my boyfriend. She goes up to him during math and opens his legs and yells sexual harrassment! My friend is in his math class and she told me everything. I asked my bf and he said its true. She has a bf too and she know's that my bf is MINE! I've been NOTHING but nice to her. What's the best way to get her to back off??? THANKS FOR HELPING!
2007-04-13 17:10:21 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What kind of "messing round" is she always doing? And what's his reaction to it? He might be flattered for the attention.
But because she's the one yelling sexual harassment after touching him on the leg, I'd advise your boyfriend to put it on official record that she touched him, not the other way round. She could be just stirring trouble, but don't you do anything to her cause she sounds like the type who would twist it so you come out the bad one.
You do have the right to tell her that she's interfering, but honestly it would be better coming from your boyfriend. Talk to him about how you feel, ask him if he will ask her to back off, and if he says no, then you have your answer.
2007-04-13 17:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider that you just must speak on your buddy to discover out why after which don't forget that a actual buddy would not intentionally harm you. If the 'screwing-over' used to be planned or pre-mediated simply stroll away together with your head held prime and be the greater man or woman. It's their loss!! If it wasn't intentional might be you must give an explanation for the way you think and allow the buddy realize what they did used to be fairly out of order, then have a while aside to manage the hindrance and spot if you'll forgive them at a few factor... Getting even will best make you think well briefly when you consider that you are going to nonetheless be harm via wasting a buddy. Good success
2016-09-05 12:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is a huge deal for you, and I'd be furious too, but I think this girl is making a fool out of herself, and she'll never be able to live down opening a guy's legs and yelling sexual harassment. It's immature and so stupid. I don't think you could do or say anything that would make her look like a bigger idiot. I would tell my boyfriend to report her to the school and/or tell her to stay away from him forever. Then just forget about her. Trust me, she's going to have a miserable time going through high school. I applaud you for being nice to her. You are showing a lot of class and kindness. Being kind when people don't deserve your kindness shows that you have a strong, good character. Hang in there!
2007-04-13 17:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's going to do whatever she wants to do so long as your boyfriend does nothing about it. You need to either ignore it or else tell your boyfriend you don't like it. The rest is up to him. This has nothing to do with getting back at the girl.
2007-04-13 17:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are careful not to get yourself kicked out of school. If she is opening his legs or whatever and he dosent like it, he should inform his teacher or someone. Maybe their classes could be changed. but he has to be the one to say something. Maybe he likes the extra attention.
2007-04-13 17:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it probably won't be anything that -you- do that gets her to stop. Explain to your boyfriend why her playing with him like that upsets you, and ask him if he'll tell her to stop the next time she tries it. If he maturely asks her to stop doing it, she'll be more likely to listen to him and get that -he does not like it-. Your boyfriend should know that you do trust him, you're just uncomfortable with this other girl's actions.
2007-04-13 17:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by uchihaaddiction 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not your place to tell her to back off...she is not sexually harassing you...
how do you know that it's harassment that is going on on the part of your bo...if he truly felt offended or violated in any way, he would have put a stop on it the instant it happened...
you may ask the question, why is your bo putting up with this?
2007-04-13 17:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by la21unica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have to be the one to get her to back off? The question is why isn't your bf doing anything about it?
2007-04-13 17:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by John L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around. Do on to others as you would have them do to you. Do the same to her boy friend. See her reaction when she sees you copy her behavior. Then when she gets mad tell her you don't like it either. That should fix that.
2007-04-13 17:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by fnbug 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st thing u must be cold down think about ur bf u r really love him?
if yes u must fight for love
u can ask ur bf stop sit beside her if him r love u !!
dun be mad !!think before u do****
2007-04-13 17:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋