What should i do?

Question

i dont know wat too do......

im a great football athlete, im expected to do after school workouts, and know everything

im a great wretler, my coach says i have alotta potential to be great, then i have after school practice

botth footbal and wres. conflict

then band, im expected to knwo my part, and do it perfect

sectionals every mon.

then my g/f broke up with me, my life fell apart

been dealing with pain since then

then expected to be a great student, made good grades, which i do

and most of all be a good son

i feel as if life is overwhelming, and i can deal with the stress and pain anymore

i need some serious answer, fyi freshmen in high school

thanks for yalls help

Answer 1

Dude,
I think you need to cut back on your extracurriculars. Have you tried talking to your parents? I know I was there many moons ago. You obviously show real potential to do things in life that most people will only dream off doing. Good luck if you want more help just IM me

Answer 2

Don't be stressing over a girl right now, if she really liked you she would respect you and understand that you are busy with all that stuff at school and she would know how important all that is ! Important to your future and who ever you spend it with ! Stay in school and if you feel you have to much to do then pick something you really enjoy doing and don't try doing everything ! it seems like you are doing to much !! You need some free time for your self too, you can still be good at what ever you decide to do, just try not doing so much !! Only play the sports you enjoy the most right now , you can change later on and play something else if you want to! You dont gotta do it all right now . your still young and have alot ahead of you ! Stay in school and don't worry about girls to much, think about your future and what you want out of life, you will meet alot of gilrs in your life time but you only have this chance to be what you want to be, a football player, a wrestler or what ever !! slow down your too young to be stressing and its not healthy !! Life will be stressful enough one day when your grown trust me !! enjoy your life and be smart by planning your future first now !!

Answer 3

Ok, Well the girl broke up with you. Your in pain. How long were you with her? Where you in love with her? Where you guys accually that close? You need to think about some things. Be alone when you do this and you have to try and keep control. Her breaking up with you, you cant control, So why not focus on the things you can have control of? (your grades and realationship with your mom and your LIFE) She was probably very important to cause this much pain but you need to try and occupy yourself. Focus on sports, try blasting your fave music instead of thinking about her and getting REALLY upset. And everyonce and a while you should think about the memories. that s what you need to let them be, the past, the memories...Try and let go, you sound like a great guy and there is probably some cute girl with a HUGE crush on you right now!!! Email me if you need someone to talk to or need help [e-mail] Good luck!

Answer 4

Dude!! You are overloaded! Number one, the girlfriend things sucks and hurts. Only time takes care of that first girlfriend loss and pain, I wish I could say something that will take that away but only time does that. As a new parent I can tell you this, a good son is one that tries his best, and stays true to himself. It sounds like you are doing that, trust me your parents will support you no matter what as long as you try your best. As far as the sport conflicts, talk with your coaches, at the high school level you should be able to balance the demands of those. If you can't or they won't be cool about it, pick the one you ENJOY!! This might not be the one you are the best at! Good luck!!

Answer 5

You are only human and the break up is affecting you deeply. This is normal, but the reality is, it is over and lingering in the pain for too long is not healthy. You need to refocus and take it day by day to get back on track. Things will get better with time ... but you must get through where you are today to heal. The good news is that this moment in life is a stepping stone to where you are going .... there is a purpose for everything. Take care of yourself, reach out to your good friends, and parents ... they will see you through the difficult days. Most importantly pray for peace, strength and courage for the new day. God hears prayers ... Good luck.

Answer 6

You are a freshman in high school dude... you don't need a lifelong commitment at this point in your life. Be glad for the time you spent together and move on. You have many many relationships ahead of you trust me... all of the people I know that married their high school sweetheart are the most BORING people I know in the world. They haven't experienced anything, they have had no adventure... be glad you are single again. Embrace it. :)

Answer 7

It's a hell of a lot of pressure, I know. Truly tough. But the pain will get easier, I promise. Just remember, whenever you are feeling overwhelmed with what you feel like you "owe" people, you are what's important. You are what's permanent, what matters. Hang in there, give yourself space to process, you will feel better.

Answer 8

i'm really sorry to hear about your g/f and the stress in your life. since your so swamped, maybe you should try picking one activity that you like the best, even if it's hard to choose, and stick to only that activity. trying to balance it all while your already upset and troubled will just make it worse and won't allow you to do your best in all aspects of your life. good luck :) <3

Answer 9

well all i can say is to stick wit the thing u enjoy the most, continue to be a good student and drop errthing else. find a new love to make u happy

Answer 10

just relax take a deep breath things will get better