why my gf doesn't want to say "I love you" yet even though we know we're good with each other and can't stand being apart? Besides common reasons like commitment worries and worried about rushing into things. Thanks to anyone for thoughtful input.
2007-04-13 16:06:53 · 6 answers · asked by Giant Donut 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it may just be she doesnt want to rush into things. sounds simple but maybe it is. a lot of people are scared to admit their feelings for fear of leaving themselves vulnerable. give her time. you can say it to her...maybe the more she hears it from you the better it will make her feel...and the more comfortable shell be to open up with you. i wouldnt let it hurt your feelings, just ride things out and give her time. if its meant to be then it will be worth the wait
2007-04-13 16:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can only get that answer from her...
And I dont say I love you because me and my boyfriend fight a lot but I'm not that bad but he can get pretty bad like calling me every name in the book and almost get physical and stuff. So I stopped saying I love you because I dont feel loved and sometimes he doesnt seem to care and I'd rather not put my heart out there if hes just going to turn around and fight with me and all. I cant keep putting myself through that and I dont think I should say it if I'm not sure if I really mean it.
2007-04-13 23:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one wants to feel pressured to say it. I dated someone who I had a great time with for almost a year, and then he started saying I love you and making these big pregnant pauses that just made me uncomfortable as hell. I am leaving out some of the details, but let's just say the good times stopped at about that time. I felt pushed.
2007-04-13 23:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people find it easy to say "I love you". Some people just could not put it to words, but that does not mean that those people love you less. That also does not mean that the love they feel for you is not real. Trust the actions because they speak louder than words. "I love you" is merely a form of reassurance. Have faith in her and help her along. Who knows, one day, she will say it.
2007-04-13 23:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... there is only one sure way to find out. ASK HER!
If you are calling her your girlfriend and the feelings are mutual, you two need to develop an ability to talk about and share your feelings.
If anything, you'll have a better understanding of her needs and wants and move one step closer to being better partners.
2007-04-13 23:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not in love with you...
2007-04-13 23:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Rionoir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋