My husband and I just got married on April 6th--one week ago today. I was wondering if anybody has any suggestions on how he can get used to wearing his ring. He said it feels uncomfortable and he keeps taking it off and putting it back on. I'm afraid he's going to lose it. He has never worn jewelry before so that's why it feels weird to him. I'm wondering if anybody had this experience and what did you do?
2007-04-13 12:50:48 · 30 answers · asked by hailesellase 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My husband doesn't secretly remove his band when I'm not around. It isn't a way of him telling me he isn't going to wear it. He is just having a bit of a hard time adjusting to wearing a ring. There is no ulterior motive to him to take it off and put it back on.
2007-04-13 13:13:45 · update #1
It really may just be his band. We tried on what felt like HUNDREDS before my husband found one that didn't bother him. He had never worn a ring in his life... and he has had no problems with the comfort band we bought. I would suggest him trying a comfort band. It was weird for Marcus for the first hour or two, but now he forgets he has it on.
Good luck.
Oh yeah, ignore all these people that are trying to convince you he just doesn't want to wear the ring. You know him better than anyone... in time he will get used to it.
2007-04-13 19:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by mrslang1976 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband doesn't wear jewelry either and had expressed to me that he didn't know if he was going to wear his ring either. I told him before we got married that I would love to have him wear his ring but if he didn't wear it every day could he at least wear it when we went out together.
He told me he'd try.......that was almost a year ago and I can't even get him to take it off to get it cleaned!
Give him some time.....if he knows how important it is to you and why you're concerned about him taking it on and off, perhaps he'll make a more concentrated effort to wearing it.
Good luck......communiciation is the key to a lasting and happy marriage.....and congratulations!
2007-04-13 14:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by soccerref 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I may be only a 13 year old girl and may not no alot of thigns but I do alot about this . When you got married to this guy and you guys put your rings on this was to symbolise the love you guys share for each other . reminde him of that. Also he is probaly afiad a little bit to wear the ring becasue he knows it means you to are married and he is scared of beign marreic because he dosent want to make any mistakes. i am sure he loves you thouh. SO dont force him to whear the ring but sit him down and tell him why its importat to you that he wear the ring and let him no how you feel and also ask him how he feels so you both no whatthe others feelign
2007-04-13 12:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by basketballbaby2223232 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-04 00:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage shouldn't be judged on whether he wears a ring or not surely you should both know that you are married without having to show it to the world don't force him to wear it and if your lucky he might end up being ok with it but forcing him will only drive you apart
2007-04-13 14:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to just leave the wedding ring on and he will get used to it. If it is too tight or too loose, then get it fixed for him right away. How about stopping in at a jewelry store to have them check the fit. Tell him that when he is tempted to take off the ring to think of you and how much you love him.
2007-04-13 13:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him that if he didn't keep taking it off his hand would adapt quicker.
I wear quite a few rings and it always takes about a week to a week and a half to adjust to a new one.
Tell him to spin it on his finger rather than take it off and concentrate on how much he loves the woman that gave it to him... He'll adjust more easily.
Congratulations
2007-04-13 12:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by shoestring_louise 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's not the right fit. That could make him uncomfortable. There are spacer things available if that's a problem, or maybe it needs resizing.
He will get used to wearing it.
2007-04-13 21:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry too much if he doesnt wear his ring , my husband doesnt like jewellery full stop and I am a jeweller, he has a wedding band and wears it on special occasions. your husband will get used to it, its like anything you are not used to it will take time. Congrats by the way.
2007-04-13 13:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by s-curly 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My suggestion would be to have him just wear it at home until he gets used to it. If even that bothers him, then have him wear it just when he is sleeping and showering, that way his body get accustomed to it. It shouldnt take much more than a week or two for him to get used to it.
2007-04-13 12:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋